witmadskilllz Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 sorry for your losses here, it sucks to know how little he values the friendship;let alone, your feelings. The good news is, you know now to never trust/be friends with that person ever again. Don't worry mate, there are better days to come by, new adventures to seek;go fourth and prosper!
Author calgary Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 thanks guys, it just feels a really crumby lonely place, I've got an exam to do tonight and I know they'll be together so it's going to be hard to concentrate. he updated his status again saying he's not moving until he gets to my town tonight. i'm probably better off without these people.. but all my passed memories now feel so fake and i'm ashamed / embarrassed to have ever spent any time or money with these people I thought a lot of.
stillafool Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 If you think this guy will definitely hook up with your ex, don't wait, cut him out of your life right now because he like your ex is a cancer. You can't stop them from hooking up so you might as well destroy anything that will keep you in touch with them. You have to pretend they died. I'm serious! If you don't this sh-- will eat you alive. Let them go they aren't worth it!
Chi townD Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 And your friend is rubbing your nose in it. He KNOWS you can see these posts. He just doesn't care. That's a great friend you got there.
Author calgary Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 I can't actually prove anything though unless I drive to her house now and leave a note on his car (if it's there) and then i'll feel like a crazy obsessive stalker ! he is rubbing my nose in it. I just can't prove anything at all.
Mack05 Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 I can't actually prove anything though unless I drive to her house now and leave a note on his car (if it's there) and then i'll feel like a crazy obsessive stalker ! he is rubbing my nose in it. I just can't prove anything at all. Forget proving anything bud. Defriend him and block her. That is step 1. Once you start thinking clearly you will realise neither of these people have any class or decency. Chitown said it best they deserve each other. Rise above the silly mind games. You have spoken about your personal issues in the past. That is what you need to focus on now. Otherwise you will just jump from one drama to the next, no matter where you live..Start coming up with plans for the future.. Sometimes you just have to accept we don't know people like we thought we did. How is putting all your focus on them helping you? 1
Author calgary Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 my anxiety is going through the roof, i'll never sleep. I hate this. I hate people at the moment.
Author calgary Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 Forget proving anything bud. Defriend him and block her. That is step 1. Once you start thinking clearly you will realise neither of these people have any class or decency. Chitown said it best they deserve each other. Rise above the silly mind games. You have spoken about your personal issues in the past. That is what you need to focus on now. Otherwise you will just jump from one drama to the next, no matter where you live..Start coming up with plans for the future.. Sometimes you just have to accept we don't know people like we thought we did. How is putting all your focus on them helping you? thanks mack05 you're right it seems pretty obvious what's going on and it's probably the cruellest out come I could have expected.
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