jordjones Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 It was my 28th bday on Friday. My girlfriend of 4 months took me to dinner with some friends. We then went to a bar. She left to go see some friends of hers, and didn't return until after close. I was pissed about this, we got in a fight, and the following morning she tried to have sex with me. I declined. She then used her vibrator. After she was done, I got up to leave. She apologized for the night before, but then said, "She was losing sexual attraction towards me..." We haven't had sex since Tuesday. She has been sick and can't talk because her voice is gone. The last time we had sex, she said, "That was the best orgasm I have ever had." She also said, around two weeks ago, that our sex from the night before was "perfect..." At a bar, a week and a half ago, she said in front of a group of friends, "Our sex life is amazing..." She has never said these types of positive things to me until recently. So, I leave, and talk to her yesterday. After cuddling with her for 30 minutes, she says, "I don't think we should spend as much time together..." and "I don't think we are in love anymore...the honeymoon is over..." I press her, asking her if she has lost it for me. She says yes. It's 3 am. I roll out of bed to get out of there. She says we can talk more about it tomorrow. I tell her this all is making me feel terrible and "it is what it is..." There has been no formal breakup, though I am going NC. Things between us have been great until about the past week. She has been really sick (terrible cold/flu) and I've done my best to take care of her. Regardless of how I feel things were going, I sense that the words she spoke mark the end. I love her dearly, and would like to have things work. My plan as of now is to give her space, let her come to me. Thoughts?
Author jordjones Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 One more thing. As far as the sexual attraction goes, when we started dating, I was pretty jacked. I've not been working out for the past couple of months. This is mostly due to the fact that the relationship gives me far less time. She has placed some hints on this recently (past few weeks). Anyways, I'm going to hit the gym hard soon...for her or to reenter the game.
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