samocovik Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I'm new here so hello everyone. My first love story is short but hey you gotta start somewheere don't ya? We met in a club i texted her we talked for a bout 3 weeks (on facebook),conversation went great..finally we saw each other in the club and started going out..we agreed we wanted to take things slowly..we were in the realtionship after 2 and a hlaf weeks of going out she was happy so was I. Anyway we were together for 2 and a hlaf months...I know that is nothing and we are both very young...17...anyway we haven't had any fight,nothing just likew beginig of realtionship should be and then out of the nowhere she say she doesnt feel the same she wants to break up..so we did..she texted me after the break up wondering how i am i said i wasnt fine she said that she is fine,,,blah blah and in the that if something changes she will tell me... i want her back.i know we are young and there is a life time in front of us but atleast i want to try...we haven't talked for 6 days now but i want to talk to her..should i go NC...please some advice on how can i try to win her back sry for bad english
Author samocovik Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 We didn't have sex I didn't told my full story..we know each other for atleast 5-6 years..we weren't friends but i know her cousin we were the same school and sometime i woould see her in some coffeshop or something. Our last week of realitosnhip couldn't be better and then boom...you dont have any advice for me how can i TRY to win her back..we are alredy in nc for 6-7 days and no i didnt send her any flowers lol thanks
Author samocovik Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 you don't have any advice? ahaha--- i dont know how to find that i searched the forum can u help
fungusamungus Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I'm guessing that if you are so beat up about a 2 month relationship that you were probably too needy and expected too much of her while you were dating, and it killed her attraction to you. The bad news is that there is likely not enough emotional investment on her part to take you back. Anything you do now will probably just come across as needy and annoying. The good news is that you were dating for such a short amount of time, that it probably will not be too hard to start from scratch and re-attract her later on down the line once htings have cooled down. And if that doesn't happen, then you can at least move on knowing that you were probably not compatible to begin with.
Author samocovik Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 i wish that the things are like you said..she never gave me the answer...she was in it more than i was
fungusamungus Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 (edited) i wish that the things are like you said..she never gave me the answer...she was in it more than i wasdoubt it, seeing that she was the one who ended it and you're the one on a relationship forum asking how to get her back. Edited March 11, 2013 by fungusamungus
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