miss_jaclynrae Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Im very blunt with people. I dont pull punches when talking about topics I find very important. However, I dont have conversations like these with women I just started dating and barely know. So no, my posting style, nor my debating style, have anything to do with my dating life. Right, you will just wait until things are more serious before you pull out this winning side of you. 2
mesmerized Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Right, you will just wait until things are more serious before you pull out this winning side of you. Being blunt and honest is a winning trait. I'm not sure why it upsets you. 1
Author kaylan Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 Right, you will just wait until things are more serious before you pull out this winning side of you. Um no...nice try, but you fail again. Actually I wait until I know the girl and see how we both feel about certain issues. I dont seriously date women who have their heads in the sand regarding many social issues. Nor do I seriously date chicks who cant hold their own in a debate and immediately respond to strong retorts by saying something to the affect of "why are you being a meanie?"...which is what I interpreted your response as. Ever see mesmerized posts? Shes blunt, in your face, and doesnt back down when her opinion is challenged. Some might say shes rude at times, but thats the kinda gals I go for. The other chicks dont get to see the real side of me because they cant handle it, and I just keep things casual because of that.
miss_jaclynrae Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Um no...nice try, but you fail again. Actually I wait until I know the girl and see how we both feel about certain issues. I dont seriously date women who have their heads in the sand regarding many social issues. Nor do I seriously date chicks who cant hold their own in a debate and immediately respond to strong retorts by saying something to the affect of "why are you being a meanie?"...which is what I interpreted your response as. Ever see mesmerized posts? Shes blunt, in your face, and doesnt back down when her opinion is challenged. Some might say shes rude at times, but thats the kinda gals I go for. The other chicks dont get to see the real side of me because they cant handle it, and I just keep things casual because of that. It is called having tact. A trait that I fully value. I can hold my own in a debate, I just refuse to resort to blatant insults when one doesn't agree with me... which is what you seem to do. Either way. You get what you give. 2
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Um no...nice try, but you fail again. Actually I wait until I know the girl and see how we both feel about certain issues. I dont seriously date women who have their heads in the sand regarding many social issues. Sometimes putting your head in the sand is the only thing keeping you from tying a cinder block around your ankles and jumping into the nearest body of water. It's a calculated choice...
Author kaylan Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 It is called having tact. A trait that I fully value. I can hold my own in a debate, I just refuse to resort to blatant insults when one doesn't agree with me... which is what you seem to do. Either way. You get what you give. Lmao...based on your posting history, this is false. Ive seen you lash out at people before. Hell you did it to me once, and it wasnt even in response to me being rude. You just didnt like my viewpoint then.
miss_jaclynrae Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Lmao...based on your posting history, this is false. Ive seen you lash out at people before. Hell you did it to me once, and it wasnt even in response to me being rude. You just didnt like my viewpoint then. I am not saying I have NEVER done it. Of course I get pushed to my limit. On this site, I think half the users are trolls. I am typically a very level headed person though. You make it sound like your personality is just like that. Sure I have lashed out, and yeah, I would not be surprised if you have been one of the people.
Archgirl Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Kaylan, babydoll, I've told you before the problem is not you. It's where you live. Ie not in Australia next door to me:love: Seriously who cares about overinflating or whatevs, you tell people what to think about you not the other way around. Plus you're clearly nail-bitingly gorgeous
SJC2008 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Being blunt and honest is a winning trait. I'm not sure why it upsets you. People are so passive these days anything more than that is considered blunt. I don't consider myself blunt per se but I'm sure not passive.
CryForNoOne Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Aren't there sites where you can get your picture rated and then you can find out if you are inflating your own attractiveness or not?
Quiet Storm Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Most white people are not capable of understanding because they have no frame of reference. Since I am married to a black man, I recognized it and experienced it long ago. I did not truly "feel it", however, until I experienced it through the eyes of my children. The world is not a fair place. And I live in Maryland, a very liberal and racially diverse state.
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