napy666 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Well the one guy this topic was about never did return any of my texts or phone calls until this morning and he replied by saying this "I'm sorry Anna. This hasn't really been a good week at all. If you'd like to talk I can call you after church when I get home. I feel I owe you a conversation to explain some things." Since our last conversation I had gotten the book "He's Just Not That Into You" and after reading that it opened my eyes as to how guys are. So now I'm wondering is what he told me this morning true or will he just tell me BS when we talk later?
creighton0123 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Personally, I feel books like that overgeneralize and are utter crap, meant only to insert immature archetypes of dating into the world that over complicate things. That being said, it would seem this guy is, in fact, over complicating things. How long have you been dating, either casually or formally?
Author napy666 Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 Personally, I feel books like that overgeneralize and are utter crap, meant only to insert immature archetypes of dating into the world that over complicate things. That being said, it would seem this guy is, in fact, over complicating things. How long have you been dating, either casually or formally? Him and I first started talking on February 24th online all day and night, then 5 days went bye and no communication whatsoever. Then March 2nd he texted me and we talked March 2nd and 3rd and then another 5 days went bye after I had texted and even called him and then today March 10th he texts me telling me this. We haven't met yet I want to meet him badly but he's doing this to me and says his car is in the shop.
Author napy666 Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 why do you want to meet him badly? People online keep saying stuff like you've been talking on and off for 2 weeks and you haven't met yet? I want to continue talking to him and meet later not rush things.
DC4 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Talking to people are what online forums are for, otherwise, it's time to meet. The men I meet online on like OkC ask me out after a couple of days of successful conversation. You've got yourself a penpal. You could just ask him out but I'm not feeling this disappearing act. What do you have to lose? Nothing!
creighton0123 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Him and I first started talking on February 24th online all day and night, then 5 days went bye and no communication whatsoever. Then March 2nd he texted me and we talked March 2nd and 3rd and then another 5 days went bye after I had texted and even called him and then today March 10th he texts me telling me this. We haven't met yet I want to meet him badly but he's doing this to me and says his car is in the shop. You haven't met in person yet and have only ever talked for a short period online and, as it would seem, on the phone. He doesn't really owe you anything. You're not invested in one another at this point in time. Don't read too much into things and take it slow. You've only been talking with this guy either online or over the phone for two weeks... Either ask him out on a date or don't. If he gives you the run around about going out on a date, move on. 1
Author napy666 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 He did mention when we were first talking that his car would be fixed soon so I do want him and I to meet soon. But its already almost 6PM and no word from him.
will1988 Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Napy I've read a few of your threads... This guy sounds like he is blowing you off, because honestly, you give off a kindy of needy and clingy vibe. That is a huge turn off to most guys. 1
Author napy666 Posted March 15, 2013 Author Posted March 15, 2013 Napy I've read a few of your threads... This guy sounds like he is blowing you off, because honestly, you give off a kindy of needy and clingy vibe. That is a huge turn off to most guys. Naw he wanted kids and since I never do he cut me off.
starla33 Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 People need to learn that guys and girls you meet online owe you nothing especially when you have not met them (they feel this way anyway). Just yesterday I had a guy I talked to on and off for 3 years online completely flake on our date and not say anything AT ALL for the 2nd time (and he was the one that said we should really meet up this time and PROMISED he wouldn't flake...haha).
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