littoMarie Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 So my ex and I were going out back in September and everything went great until he began ignoring me and I was like "what did I do" & he said it was because I didn't talk. Which was true because I was quite most of then time & even in front of his friends. So then one day one of my friends told me she heard him call me a Bitch and I confronted him about it and he said it wasn't true. It took me 4 days to break up with him & when I told him it was over I didn't sound serious. I couldn't even look him in the eye & our relationship only lasted a month and a half . After I broke up with him I felt regret & the whole November I felt depressed & no one was there for me except my Best Friend. Later December comes & he tells me he misses me & how he screwed up and he couldn't just do it without me. I missed him too & so we started talking again ever since.. I told one of my cousins what was going on & she said I should talk to him. (Give him a second chance) February comes and my ex & me are still talking & it's going better. He isn't that jerk he use to be. Then at school 3 guys start liking me & my cousin tells me to ignore my ex and give one of the other guys a chance. I thought she was dumb. And now She told everyone everything that happen between my ex & me & all my friends are judging me . They won't ever stop and they talk about my ex behind my back. My ex & I are now going out. I met his mom & she Likes me. I feel like things are much better between him and me now because he makes me even more happy. They only person that supports me is my Best friend because she knew him too . She would always tell me how he would talk about me in class. I'm 16 & He's 17. Am I doing something wrong? Did I do something wrong in taking my ex back? Most of my friends talk crap about me &him behind my back and they won't ever shut up . My Ex (who is now my boyfriend) And I have been together for almost a month now.
creighton0123 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Have you tried talking to your friends and letting them know the way they are acting is hurting you? Anyhow, this is the type of drama and negativity that is common in dating at your age. I wouldn't let it impact you too much. Whether you and your boyfriend last another few months, few years, or the rest of your lives, this type of behavior will be history in no time. They'll soon grow tired of it and move onto something else.
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