Sososad Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Guess I've fully lost hope of her coming Back Getting In touch .. Maybe i should have fought for her more Done the wrong things called texted and tried. Guess it's a lose lose situation . It's now going into the 6th week of breakup Time to face the facts if she wanted me or wanted something She'd have made contact ... Guess no contact is helping me heal. But as I'm healing i know bit by bit I'm loosing her .. Guess it was never meant to be ... 6 weeks and its gone .... Feel I should have tried ... Wouldn't have made a difference To be honest but still feel that way .. I won't break it .. But still sad ;(
MushyPeas Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Well firstly well done on going so long with no contact, it's not an easy thing to do! You would have only held yourself up even further if you'd have been in contact. I get this post, it's hard stepping back and letting someone come to you, especially when you're almost positive that they won't, and that's why so many of us panic and give in, breaking NC. I last saw my ex a week ago, I walked away feeling positive and thinking he would contact me as I said something like "I can't always be the one to put my self on the line to contact you"...Still haven't heard anything, that says it all entirely and I'm okay with that, you know what? If i got a text from him tonight I'd probably ignore it because I'm not waiting around for something that's never going to happen anymore. I think in situations like these, the ex knows how you feel, they know that if they rang you up and said they wanted you back, you'd probably say yes, so instead of feeling like you're losing her, maybe one day she'll realise that she was the one to just walk away, maybe she'll regret that she didn't try harder, that's how I'm trying to think of it anyway. You will be okay! You've made so many good steps and haven't hindered your progress by letting your feelings get out of control and doing something stupid.
Author Sososad Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 Thanks for your kind words. It's unlikely after this time she is Gonna come back . She appears to be having a fantastic life and Hasn't looked back Guess that's a harder pill to swallow then the breakup .. I still miss her tho .. But if she didnt care enough to try then What can I do ...
MushyPeas Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Well unfortunately you'll never know if she looks back, her actions don't necessarily mean she doesn't think about you, but this shouldn't give you hope that things will get better, you seem to have your head in the right place though, and you're accepting of that fact that it's over, good for you! That's the hardest thing to do. The thing you can do is stop going over aspects of her life because you've got more important things to be doing, this is all time that you could be spending on making your life fantastic! And it really can be you just need to stop worrying about her and what she's up to, do things you want to do and get out there even if you really don't feel like it, you just wanna crawl under the duvet, get up and do something and you will feel better because your mind is occupied.
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