mammasita Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 (edited) So a few weeks ago I went on a date with this man. Everything seemed to go well, he wanted to continue the date by going to do something after dinner. Well things didnt work out that way and we decided to go bowling on that Sunday. I sent him a text Sunday morning saying "are we still bowling, what time?" No response. I was disappointed because I thought the date went very well and we had quite a bit in common.....but the reality is that it was one date. I wrote him off and went about my merry way. Two weeks later, this Thursday I get a text.....from him. "Hey, how are you. My phone had water damage and I just got a new one" I'm a skeptic and didnt quite buy this since there are a ton of other ways to get in contact, including the dating site we met on. Anyway, I humor him. We chat for a few minutes and I let him know I have plans Friday but am free the rest of the weekend. He doesn't give me any firm plans....so again I said eff it and went about my business. Friday night at 11pm, I get a "wanna hang" text. I didn't. Again he says nothing about going out Saturday. Saturday day, my son and I took a day trip to the Air & Space museum in DC (my highlight was the stop at IKEA on the way home ) I get a text from this man about 5pm....."tonight?" By this point I'm frustrated....and annoyed at his style of communication. I say "I'm not gonna feel like driving anywhere when I get home at 9pm"? Then I say "tomorrow?" His response "no. Take care" My take away from all this is that he's a weirdo with a low amount of social skills AND he was trying to get some ass. And no, I didn't respond to his "no, take care"....that was my queue to officially write him off. Edited March 10, 2013 by mammasita
creighton0123 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Yeah. He doesn't seem to be in a place in life where he wants to date or is capable of communicating or dating. Dating 101: If you want to go on another date, arrange it and pencil it in quickly and if you have to reschedule, do so with a valid reason and set a new time if you have an interest in another date again.
DC4 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Sounds like he just wants a booty call. ding ding ding!!
Ruby Slippers Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Yep, looking for a booty call. And being lazy and dumb about it, too. Lose him!
sabre80 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Whatever his excuse a gentleman should respect a lady enough to make a formal plan in advance for a date. As in 2+ days. Spontaneous is good if you are in a serious relationship but if there is no commitment it just screams booty call or "my other online date just flaked on me lets see if I can fill the slot with my back up broad".
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