glace10 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 my ex boyfriend broke it off with me almost 4months now. January 2013, i deactivated my facebook account because i wanted to get over my ex as fast as i could. Everything went well with me for those 2 months not seeing him. Although sometimes i open my fb at midnight to check his profile (yes im guilty i shouldnt even be doing that)..Right when i closed down myaccount he never posted any statuses again. When normally he would post something every week or so. So last night i decided to open my account after two months of not being on it, i uploaded a new profile picture and one picture of me and my guy friend skyping. On the other hand my ex after so long of not posting anything, he posted a status right when i reactivated my account. After 15 mins or so i went to his profile and saw "add as a friend", and there it was he deleted me off his friends list. I dont get why he would delete me when our break up wasnt horrible at all, and he was the one who broke up with me in the first place. Also this guy i was skyping with was the same guy i had a thig with when i was in highschool, and my ex knew about that. Does my ex hate me? why is he deleting me now, why didnt he delete me before right after we broke up?
germain Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I regret most of the ex's I've deleted. I only did it to piss them off further lol. I'm not sure why your ex didn't delete you when you broke up. Maybe he didn't want to cut all ties? I'm sure the photo with the guy you uploaded brought back some of those feelings he was trying to forget. Only natural. Don't worry so much about Facebook posts. You had the right idea in removing him from your life for a while. (maybe just block updates and keep the profile next time? lol)
Sososad Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Facebook can be a very nasty weapon in Breakups some people use it to show how good life Is without the said person and that's sometimes Just to much for a person to see you life Moving on and him maybe not so far down the line I'm not saying you done this on purpose But I wouldn't get angry too much I think he was kinda Right if things are off why drag up old emotions that hurt you . You gotta protect yourself too.. He may have actually done you a favour .. Try not over analyze ..
denxnis Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Should i try to reach out to him? Yeah maybe you should post another picture of you and some guy. It sounds like you're playing games and trying to make him jealous or something... Good luck with that. 1
iouaname Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Well I think it's pretty clear? You uploaded a picture of a guy that you used to have a fling with, and whether it was intentional or not, it was something that got under his skin. He also probably did not want to see that you were moving on.
Echo000 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I would have (and actually have) done the same thing. Even if you did not intentionally aim to hurt him with that picture, Im sure it did bring him some pain. One of the FIRST pictures you upload is of one with you and another guy you used to have a thing with..how would you feel if he had put up a pic of him and an old fling after being off fb? He is protecting himself..which is smart. I did the same thing, because who needs that pain.
Author glace10 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 I would have (and actually have) done the same thing. Even if you did not intentionally aim to hurt him with that picture, Im sure it did bring him some pain. One of the FIRST pictures you upload is of one with you and another guy you used to have a thing with..how would you feel if he had put up a pic of him and an old fling after being off fb? He is protecting himself..which is smart. I did the same thing, because who needs that pain. thank you so much for making me understand this furthur more. so does that mean he still has feelings for me because hes still affected? i dont get it though, he's the one who dumped me, didnt he kind of asked for this?
Author glace10 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 Well I think it's pretty clear? You uploaded a picture of a guy that you used to have a fling with, and whether it was intentional or not, it was something that got under his skin. He also probably did not want to see that you were moving on. thank you for your reply me and the other guy are only friends now. And no i didnt i do it on purpose to hurt my ex because instagram uploads picture directly on fb too. is there any way i could get him to come back?
singme2sleep Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 My ex broke up with me, yet didn't delete or block me on Facebook? What's the reasoning behind that?!
na49 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 My ex broke up with me, yet didn't delete or block me on Facebook? What's the reasoning behind that?! lol don't wait for him to block you. You have to block him sweetie. 1
flitzanu Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 my ex boyfriend broke it off with me almost 4months now. January 2013, i deactivated my facebook account because i wanted to get over my ex as fast as i could. Everything went well with me for those 2 months not seeing him. Although sometimes i open my fb at midnight to check his profile (yes im guilty i shouldnt even be doing that)..Right when i closed down myaccount he never posted any statuses again. When normally he would post something every week or so. So last night i decided to open my account after two months of not being on it, i uploaded a new profile picture and one picture of me and my guy friend skyping. On the other hand my ex after so long of not posting anything, he posted a status right when i reactivated my account. After 15 mins or so i went to his profile and saw "add as a friend", and there it was he deleted me off his friends list. I dont get why he would delete me when our break up wasnt horrible at all, and he was the one who broke up with me in the first place. Also this guy i was skyping with was the same guy i had a thig with when i was in highschool, and my ex knew about that. Does my ex hate me? why is he deleting me now, why didnt he delete me before right after we broke up? why is it weird he deleted you? and why are you stalking his every move on fb? he broke up with you, it's perfectly normal to delete you. breaking up with you means he doesn't want you around anymore.
flitzanu Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 My ex broke up with me, yet didn't delete or block me on Facebook? What's the reasoning behind that?! there's no reasoning. he still dumped you. facebook has nothing to do with it.
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 you're talking about 4 months... lol try 8 months never spoke to him after the BU, NEVER even saw the guy after two years and he did the same thing to me after all this time. He even had his friends delete me off of FB just few days after i activated it. the way i see it, very immature so my point is don't be bothered by it. Its like your exs way of having the "last say" of the argument after all this time. Just truly shows the kind of person they are...
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