TaylorBug Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 So I met a guy 4months ago on Eharmony. We clicked instantly. Up until a few weeks ago everything was perfect. We talked 24/7 about everything. I was out of state for surgery and he proceded to keep talking and waiting to meet( we met once 2 years ago). He had really been there for me and my dad fell ill, he was still there because he wanted a chance with me. He even changed his phone plan to talk to me more. Well for the past few weeks we have been getting into arguments. I told him i needed some space. A day later we were talking. Over these weeks, our meet has been pushed back and we kept fighing. He ended it but I still texted and we started talkimg again. I couldnt meet that time. last night he kind of yelled and He said he doesnt feel important and that its really over. He feels smothered. He will still meet but wont talk to me until then. An hour later he called to apologize for rasimg his voice. He told me he wants to meet and gave me alternative times. I said I was busy and had a datebc he said.move on. He said he is sick of fighting. I wrote an email apologizing and said im giving him space. He writes " we are meeting Monday but I suppose you are setting up dates. I said u told me to move on. He wrote, " I offered to meet Friday, but I suppe you are " setting up other dates". I wrote " well you said Sunday. I'm leaving you alone now." He writes " I did say Sunday but also offered Friday. This has nothing to do with how I feel, we just need to meet but I guess you can't make time for me then. Thursday I told him I feel like I'm being strung alone. He said he wasn't interested but we have to meet. He called to talk but I was sleeping. Yesterday he tried asking where I was and he got mad when I wouldn't answer. We fought. This morning we were going to meet until he found out I made a date with another guy. He said it's disrespectful and he was done. Texted once but never heard back. Does he even care? Is he acting like this because we haven't met? He said we can meet and go from there. He is interested but its too weird we haven't met yet. Help
outsidethebox Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 You two sound like you're made for each other. I hope it works out.
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