Hoaks Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Hi guy, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me, she really tried to make me dislike her in the last month. She always wanted me to be the one to break it off. But I love this girl so much. We were only talking about moving in together a week before the breakup. she said she loves me but we dont click. which is not right. we were together 8 months. So for 4 weeks after the break I have been devastated. no smiling no laughing. cannot even look at another girl. Have been on anti depressants, seeing a psychotherapist. Forced myself to go NC, as she said she wanted freedom for now. I really had ni choice in nc as she blocked me on fb and cancelled her phone. So after 4 weeks im feeling ok, starting pick up a bit, then she calls me and says she misses me and im the only one she has ever loved, I say we should catch up for a drink and she says yeah for sure. then she says she will call me when she wants to exchange some stuff, what the hell? I dont get women, this had sent me back to square one. left waiting for a call when she is ready. I really wish she didnt call and say that stuff. its so hard to cope right now. my family are sick of hearing about it, im so lost :-(
CudLRoo Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Ah, man, fuc 'em when they're like that. It's not worth the absolute pain. I feel for you, as an emotions-type guy. Even nice guys have to learn to be a bit bastardy, I've learned. It's like wearing in quality shoes, takes a lot of time and effort.
SimonSerenade Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I hate those kind of women, so indecisive, you should forget she ever called and if she ever asks again about her crappy ass stuff, you give it her, get it out the way with and pretend she only called for that, none of the rest, I know your feeling lost, she gave you a life line and took it away, she's a smelly *******, she probably said all that because you've been so strong, no contact has been working for you, she starts to wonder why you haven't been hassling her or been interested in knowing what's going on in her life, sounds like you've gone through a lot and started to come out of the other end of the tunnel, she's had her fix in knowing you want to see her, don't give her another fix, don't play her games, if she wants you she has to fight for you, gain your self respect back and find your form again, you'll be okay man, put it all behind you, don't even wait for her call, play it casual, sometimes playing it down and being a dick head is for the best.
The Tallest One Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Goals, my last gf was indecisive for eighteen of the twenty two months we were seeing each other! These confused type women are soul destroyers! Run from this woman and spare yourself a boat load of pain! Take it from me, it gets dragged out for a very long time and at the expense of your well being! Avoid her like the plague and protect yourself!
The Tallest One Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Sorry, I meant hoaks, not goals, stupid auto correct on iPhone!
Author Hoaks Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 Goals, my last gf was indecisive for eighteen of the twenty two months we were seeing each other! These confused type women are soul destroyers! Run from this woman and spare yourself a boat load of pain! Take it from me, it gets dragged out for a very long time and at the expense of your well being! Avoid her like the plague and protect yourself! Thanks for the replies guys, my whole family wanted me away from her, was so hard, I was blind to alot of things. And she knows I would come running as soon as she asks. not now though. I never knew these feelings existed in life. But im not the only one I guess :-(
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