misswillow Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I don't really think this is the kind of thing my ex would do, but the thought does occur to me what if he did find his way to this site and see my posts. I've put enough details in them that there would be no question that he would know it was me. That is like my worst nightmare. 1
Mack05 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 (edited) I don't really think this is the kind of thing my ex would do, but the thought does occur to me what if he did find his way to this site and see my posts. I've put enough details in them that there would be no question that he would know it was me. That is like my worst nightmare. I lived that nightmare...I used an old poker name my ex knew. She googled it looking to see if I joined a dating website and it lead her to here.. See the drama unfold yourself -> http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/282460-those-thinking-breaking-nc Thankfully I can smile about it now..Hope she is well and happy..She is a good girl Edited March 10, 2013 by Mack05
its a lifestyle Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I lived that nightmare...I used an old poker name my ex knew. She googled it looking to see if I joined a dating website and it lead her to here.. See the drama unfold yourself -> http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/282460-those-thinking-breaking-nc Thankfully I can smile about it now..Hope she is well and happy..She is a good girl BURNNNNNN! Haha mate, that was pretty intense wow... If my ex knew who I was on hear and read my posts I would probably move to another country, grow a beard and wear hats&shades 24/7. 2
Simon Phoenix Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Not at all. She could probably figure it out if she somehow found this site as I've put a decent amount of details that she would identify as her and me, but I really wouldn't care. 1
fancy feast Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 No, I'm pretty good at remaining anonymous on the Internet. Pretty sure someone on this site thought I was their ex boyfriend, or at least they thought I was someone they knew. I found that pretty funny. 2
Author misswillow Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 Wow... Now that really scares me. While it occurred to me that my ex could see my posts, I never would have dreamed an ex would start posting! At least I have used a name that my ex has no way of knowing. What made you decide to come back with the same username?
singme2sleep Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Yeah the thought has crossed my mind. Once or twice I started reading someone's story and considered they could be him, but then a read a little further and it didn't match up. Overall I very much doubt he'd be on here and if he was he wouldn't recognize me from my screen name, although like one of the above posters said, he prob would figure it out if he read all I've written. However I doubt it.
McDonald Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 That was pretty intense. But if you are being honest with yourself and what you say on LS, then there should be nothing to worry about. If the ex gets all butt hurt about you not seeing the other side well.... it would have been nice if they could have gave us closure lol. 1
Drummerboy420 Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 That has definitely been a thought/worry. But I don't see her taking the time and effort to stalk me so extensively.
destroyed4sho Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I dont give a ****....she is always browsing he internet about relationship issues. I think that is where I got it from and it led me here. I dont care, let her read it, it will actually make me feel better if she did so she can know all the pain she caused me. AND what a JERK she really is. 1
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 (edited) i wish mine had the brain or the ability to see the stuff i post on LS! Maybe then he'll see half the sh*t he put me through eh too bad i know he's cold and heartless douche knuckle Edited March 10, 2013 by SoConfusedAndInShock 2
emmalynro Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Nah. He probably wouldn't appreciate my attempts to psychoanalyze him, but that's what this stuff is for, dammit! However, I have to admit that I probably won't post here much or at all after I attempt to get some closure. While I think this is a good way to deal with the initial feelings of shock and talk to others, but it doesn't seem emotionally healthy to fixate on things for more than a couple weeks (or months if you were together for years) after the fact.
Bigcitydreamer Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Yes I do worry about that LOL and Mack that really cracked me up! I'm sure if my ex saw what I posted he would get on with similar bs!
SimonSerenade Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 My ex didn't find me on here but my current girlfriend did!, oh god I felt so horrible that she found all my old posts, she was upset about it, can't say I blame her, reading all those old posts about my ex, didn't help how I talked so much about her in the beginning, maybe I'll learn to not use the same username for almost every single website I'm on lol, even after she saw all she saw and had to hear all about my ex, she still stayed with me, now that's a good woman right there, don't make my mistakes, don't get with a great lady and talk about your ex, there is better ladies out there, ever since I found my girlfriend I was so happy that I went through all I did back then because it led me to her, I couldn't care less if my ex found all this stuff now, what I felt back then means nothing to what I feel now, things aren't great at the moment but because of what I've learned on this site things will be just fine
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