Steve11 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 She texted me saying hope you're ok this evening, sorry to hear about the football. We lost today. Why?
Author Steve11 Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 She hasn't contacted me since the breakup apart from replying to me. Why text that? It's pointless.
CudLRoo Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Power over you and slight doubt, she's 'probing', just to ease maybe some guilt on her part? They do this. I'd stay NC, though it's easy to say that, innit?
Author Steve11 Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 I want her back tho! I'm not getting my hopes up tho
Author Steve11 Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 Why text tho? We always lose, she knows that.
CudLRoo Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Don't worry about it, it was a weak text anyway. Leave her be, and remember all the bites and the times she spat in your face. All you'll do is crush yourself further if you cave in to such mediocrity. Puzzle her, wind her up. Consider it a game.
CudLRoo Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Ah, well. I probably would've at that point, too. See what happens this time. Was it a short 'un or a long 'un?
Author Steve11 Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 Short & pointless. I replied awnsering. Asked if she was ok, but haven't had a response. Will never understand women. Back to no contact!
Author Steve11 Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 She texted back saying she wasn't too bad, weekends are hard, so she wanted to make sure I was ok. What. The. F-ck?
CudLRoo Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 (edited) Leave it now and keep leaving it. Join PoF and see how many hits you get. You might be stuck on her now, but when you get a couple of girlies in your web, you rapidly start to overlook the 'The One', especially if you've got someone nice who's wanting to spend some time with you - it really jars, then, just thinking of how often you got fuc,ked around by that 'special' one, when you can almost instantly and easily have someone who treats you way nicer than THAT. Seriously, I urge you to give it a go, it can be cathartic - your emotions'll be making you feel guilty, probably, but she treated you like pap, it's your prerogative and you are 100% within reason allowed to check out other girls during this hiatus - after all, she 'dumped' you and you are feeling 100% crap as a result. Go on, do it, it'll put a cheeky smile on your face when she keeps on messing you about, and you could be having a bit of fun, rather than feel depressed all the time. Fact is, if she wants you, she'll let you know - if you're just moping about, being a bit emo over this, you're wasting your own time and *deserve* a bit of lovin' from another - END OF! Edited March 10, 2013 by CudLRoo 1
Author Steve11 Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 Ha Yeah, I know what you're saying! I done that after my last breakup and ended meeting some really weird girls. You know how it is tho, I think the sun shines out of her a** even tho it takes two to ruin a relationship. I haven't texted back, it's all just completely messes with your head!
CudLRoo Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 If it's any consolation, Ste, I spent all last Saturday night crying like an adult baby, but not in that sick way you see on some Channel 4 documentaries, more in a very sad way. THIS Saturday night? I'm in heavy comms with a very sexy lass who wants to get me into bed. I definitely feel slightly different this weekend!
Author Steve11 Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 Well, she texted back saying she finds weekends hardest & just wanted to see if I was ok. I waited till today to text back, asked if she misses me more on the weekends, she replied saying yeh, of course. Is she fishing? Does she want to get back?
CudLRoo Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 It's hard to tell anymore. She sounds a bit loopy, if I'm honest. I'd be getting pretty narked by now and I'd consider an ultimatum, just so I could know where I stand, she's taking a liberty by f*cking you about. Don't forget mate, sanity is a precious commodity. She'll end up driving you mental if you don't get out of this state of feeling. Plenty of nice girls out there, it's just hard to filter out the maniacs sometimes.
Author Steve11 Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 I texted back asking with a bit of banter and asking if she misses e during the week. She replied of course, it's hard when we spent so much time together. She said she worries about me and hopes I'm ok. I'd be alright if you left me the f-ck alone.
Author Steve11 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 Out of 4 texts, 3 hoped I was ok. Is she fishing? I sent a pretty blunt reply saying you keep asking if I'm ok, I'm fine. Stil don't have my stuff back either.
TaraMaiden Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Comment deleted. too rude to print. I need a definitive answer please, as to why people purposely do things, after much consideration and advice to the complete contrary - which they know, they absolutely KNOW - will be the wrong thing to do. Why? Why do people do it?? WHY - ?!? 1
Author Steve11 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 I know, I know. I'm sorry. I want to be with her. I'll tell her we need to cut all ties because we both need to move on.
TaraMaiden Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Don't. Tell. Her. ANY-THING. You merely resume No Contact - and stick to it. Going No Contact - and sticking to it - IS telling her. 1
Author Steve11 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 I was doing NC, and then she contacted which set me back.
TaraMaiden Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 No... You were doing NC, then she contacted and you replied. Which set you back. Own it dude.... They can't give you setback, if you don't get back.
Author Steve11 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 You are right. From this point I'm going NC, ill just have to wait till she gives me stuff to her friend and vica versa.
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