Vash808 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 2 weeks broken up. She says she was unhappy and that she has been seeing another guy for a month. We still remain in contact and hang out once in awhile. We also have a daughter. She says she loves me and she still wants to be with me but she needs some time and space yet she still sticks around with this other guy. I told her exactly how i felt about her and what i'm willing to do but every time I try to move on and push her away it seems she try's to pull me back in. What should I do?
radinna82 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Whoa! That is one confused woman. If she says she loves you and still wants to be with you, then why has she been seeing this other guy. I think you need to decide if she is who you want to be with and if it is worth saving. If it is, you too need to have a heart to heart and if time is what it takes, so be it
Author Vash808 Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 We've been together for 5 years. I feel like she is definitely worth it but I feel like she's just leading me on. It feels like she's using me to transition to this other guy. We've had many heart to heart conversations since the break up and at first she wasn't sure what she wanted and only recently she told me that she still loves me.
radinna82 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Yeah, I think you better give her time and space. She obviously doesnt know what she wants if she is with him but would tell you that. I think if she meant it, she would do what she could to make things right with you. You could very well be right about her using you. I would walk away and give her time to figure it out.
fancy feast Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 So she was seeing someone behind your back(for a month, yet you've been broken up for two weeks)? **** that noise, I would blank her completely unless it involves your daughter. You deserve better.
Author Vash808 Posted March 13, 2013 Author Posted March 13, 2013 Thanks for all the feedback. I just don't understand what's going through her mind at this point. She still sleeps over my house and we still have sex yet she still talks to this guy. We spend time with eachother and it almost feels like nothing ever happened. She's even promised me that one day we'll be together again and that right now she's trying to get everything out of her system. WTF?
cavalier99 Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 You are being used. You are absolutely right. Your are comfort as she transitions to the other guy. Tell her either work on thing with you and end any contact with him or F*off except for dealing with the daughter. You need to man up. It is really tough but she is totally disrespecting you. Don't put up with it. You'll regret it. Sorry. Cav
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