Author Eternal Sunshine Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 Isn't that the "She bang, she bang" guy from American Idol? You lit my fuse and now I am ticking away like a bomb now babyyyyyyyy :lmao::lmao: 1
Barnacle-Bob Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 I got little/no interest in music so that scratches out almost all black females, no interest in attending church so that hurts a good portion of white females, and well, if they know the kind of life I'm living, I would scare away the majority of the remaining left I've been sitting here for 5 minutes trying to wrap my head around this comment. 1
Pyro Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 You lit my fuse and now I am ticking away like a bomb now babyyyyyyyy :lmao::lmao: 2
iKING Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Can't.. Resist.. Clicking.. Link! Darn you! Top comment: "no doubt...one of the best performers and voclists i've ever witnessed......" 1
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 Ohhhh so downloading this for my alarm clock 1
TheGuard13 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 If he just wanted to put you in his spank bank, he could just save the pictures. He's probably debating contacting you again. Or he has a bad memory and forgets you actually went out already.
Barnacle-Bob Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 ES, look....you're hot, so the guy probably digs you but was intimidated by your your lack of engagement in the date and lack of interest post-date. He's probably passively reaching out to you hoping that you will reciprocate.
Vallez Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 (edited) I am not much experienced into online dating websites, but have you ever thought you made a good impression on this guy and that he might of been perving your profile to see if you "met" someone else or if he is exploring if you are still on it "hooking" up with other men. I mean since I am not experienced into online dating sites, don't get me wrong. But if I'd ever meet someone and register to the one website I'd always have a question if the back of my mind. How can I know this guy isn't dating every new girl everyday and chatting up with 10 more girls. Just crossed my mind, as I said I'm not into online dating sites, but I asume people do not talk to just 1 person and go to just 1 date, its normal to multitask. I'd perv someone if I was actually interested in them checking up reasons above Edited March 9, 2013 by Vallez
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 ES, look....you're hot, so the guy probably digs you but was intimidated by your your lack of engagement in the date and lack of interest post-date. He's probably passively reaching out to you hoping that you will reciprocate. Aw thanks for your kind words
Barnacle-Bob Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Aw thanks for your kind words I was just bullsh**ting you.
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 I was just bullsh**ting you. :mad: *slaps Bob*
Object_a Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Yes, there were 5 days recently with no visitors, and then just one every few days for awhile. I live in a rather sparsely populated area so I don't expect tons of activity. Perhaps once the limited pool of locals has visited they don't come back around, but even then it doesn't seem quite right. I have several pics and a well written profile. I usually get compliments on the profile when I'm contacted. I wonder if there's some kind of algorithm that determines how often a profile shows up. I just went in and edited the text to see if that will make a difference. I'm in a similar situation (e.g. fairly small pool of users in my area), and I've noticed that if you don't update your profile or answer any questions your views just stop completely. Once everyone has looked at you there's no reason for them to come back unless you give them one. Just answering a question once every couple of days is enough to make you pop up on the activity feed and maybe spark someone's interest. Being online also makes you come up higher on the results when someone uses the default 'special blend' match setting, so leaving OKC open in another tab while you're online also helps. It's all about gaming the system.
dasein Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I have sent "why looking so much? is there a booger in my nose?" emails and have had some rather immature "viewing duels" with women after dating and falling out. Who knows what it is, better getting looked at than not, right? 1
outsidethebox Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Yes, there were 5 days recently with no visitors, and then just one every few days for awhile. I live in a rather sparsely populated area so I don't expect tons of activity. Perhaps once the limited pool of locals has visited they don't come back around, but even then it doesn't seem quite right. I have several pics and a well written profile. I usually get compliments on the profile when I'm contacted. I wonder if there's some kind of algorithm that determines how often a profile shows up. I just went in and edited the text to see if that will make a difference. Your first part was right. Once the local pool has taken a look at your profile, occasionally even a second time, then they wouldn't have a reason to look at it again. And so yes, after a few weeks the visitor count drops dramatically. There is no limitation on showing profiles in matches. Whatever the criteria, it will retrieve and display matches that meet the criteria. Quiver matches are a one time deal. You either message or decline. Changes to profile I don't think make a difference unless it affects search criteria. In other words, editing wording saying you like boating wouldn't affect anything unless someone includes a keyword search for boating. One thing changing profile or even answering quetions does is put recent activity on first page which people may see first, may see something about what you're editing that catches their eye, and click on your profile. So there's a possibility to see another visitor ot two that way when changing profile.
Green Light Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 He could have OCD and if he doesn't look at your profile 7 times a day then the world will end. He's really doing us all a favor by looking at you! Whatever you do, don't take down that profile! 1
Star Gazer Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I used to get this all the time. I also had guys "Favorite" me but never contact me in any other way. I chalked it up to them being really interested but lacking balls and follow-through. 1
RedRobin Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I seem to recall another button that says "More like her"... So, even if you two didn't hit it off, he might just keep going back hoping their little sorting algorithm will find someone similar. I tried this one time... changed my gender and did a search for women in my demographic (age, education, income). It was interesting to check out my competition. You might try it sometime... Everyone doing OKC should, IMHO.
mortensorchid Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 That happened to me on OKC once. Some guy I'd been in contact with via text, then once I sent a text and he texted back "Who's this? I got an iCloud" That was a lie, he knew damned well who I was as we had just texted the day before. He visited my profile a few times, under different user names (but the same profile photos), then emailed again "I miss our chats". Answer? Blocked him. And you should do the same with that guy.
USMCHokie Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Have you ever perhaps given any consideration to changing your avatar? To, you know, something less creepy. I've asked at least three times. Hopefully he will say yes to you. I think it's the most accurate representation of me, albeit a bit creepy. Because I'm a bit creepy. 4
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 I think it's the most accurate representation of me, albeit a bit creepy. Because I'm a bit creepy. I don't want to get too deep here, but it's like a caricature of everything you hate about yourself in one image. 1
USMCHokie Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I don't want to get too deep here, but it's like a caricature of everything you hate about yourself in one image. You're probably right. I'm sure glad he had that picture taken.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 How can you see how many times he visited? Not that I've had any problem with stalkers. I am having the opposite problem. I sometimes go a week without a new visitor. I wonder if I'm not showing up in searches. I used to get a lot more activity. Either you're short, ugly, or have a bad profile. OLD is no bueno for most guys unless they're VERY good looking or have super tight game.
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