TeRRaVen52 Posted September 6, 2004 Posted September 6, 2004 Theres a long story with the girl I've been going out with for the past month, I'll start when she was going out with one of my friends around 6 months ago in March. I didn't know her and my friend introduced me to her and I thought she was a very pretty and cool girl. First off she doesnt drink or smoke and neither do I so I liked that and shes very attractive. Now I thought all that stuff was cool and all but never thought about messing up my friends relationship so nothing happened. Around 2 months went by and my friend was a terrible boyfriend and she wasn't too greta of a girlfirend for him, they would fight like crazy so they broke up and I still kinda talked to her but not really. I started to like her cuz I was talkin to her online alot and I''ve always had a small crush on her but then all of a sudden she gets a new bf which i didnt know. Well I thought my chances with her were done because summer was starting and I never talk to most of my friends in the summer but then all of a sudden we started talkin online some which was still no big deal. But then one day she wanted to make plans with me so I did and we went to the movies with one of my friends and one of her friends, nothing happened we had a good time and left. I started talkin to her online alot and flirting a little bit ( and she still has her old bf but obviously doesnt like him anymore) so then we made plans again and she came to my house with another one of her friends and my best friend. Now it seemed liek she liked me and didnt at the same time, my best friend says it was obvious because she wouldnt wanna make plans with me. So then my friend Jon asked her if she would hook up with me and she said yes and of course that was a plus. Then my best friend Chris asked her if she liked me and she said yes I do but I just dont want a bf right now so that got me happy and sad. She dumped her bf and we started hanging out a lot and we kissed alot and knew we liked eachother. Then she went a on a cruise for 2 weeks and I thought it was over and she would stop liking me, things were getting really good before she left too. But she emailed me alot on the cruise and really seemed like she missed me and liked me alot and never really expressed her emotions before. Then when she back things were a little awkward but they got back to normal but then i left for myrlte beach for a week. Now I was staying in MB for 2 weeks and the 2nd week she was actually coming down there. The first week I tried texting her and calling her and she just wouldnt call me or text me back and I was confused and I just gave up. But then when she came down to Myrtle beach she called and we started hangin out down there. Things were great down there I felt really comfortbale around her and it flet great. Then i asked her out when we left myrlte beach and she said yes. The first 2 weeks of us going out was the best 2 weeks with her ever. She called me alot we hung out alot and she was exited to see me all the time. Then all of a sudden she stopped calling, stopped texting and didnt hang out with me as much. Then school started and she took me to school and I saw her in school a little bit but we still wernet talking as much. I thought she stopped liking me but ppl say she hasnt and she still seems liek she likes me i guess but doesnt wanna hang out. This whole 3 day weekend we didnt see eachother and I REALLY wanted to see her...were not acting ourselves lately and i dont know why can somebody just try to analyze whats going on.
Vie Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 It seems to me that you're in this "she likes me.. she likes me not.. she likes me.. she likes me not.." drama. I think you need to feel secure about your relationship.. maybe she's been busy with school and everything, which is why she doesn't have time to hang out anymore. I think the best you can do is to have a serious talk with her. You can ask her "where do we go from here.. why can't we make time for ourselves?" I've always thought that communication is important. It surely sucks to have relationship that keeps you wondering all the time. You have done your efforts, let's see from her side. Good luck.
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