HeavenOrHell Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 A lot of the time we post here because we are struggling with our LDR's, so how about saying what you like/love/appreicate about your relationship/your partner? I love our nightly calls and talking online, I like looking forward to them after a busy day. I love his accent and the sound of his voice, I've never found a voice so sexy before, I guess this is because we're not together most of the time, so because I can't see him on the phone his voice is more apparent as it were! Like having an extra sense in a way, like sex in the dark can make touch more accentuated! I love the tenderness in his voice. I appreciate him calling/talking online each day no matter how stressed/knackered or ill he is. I like planning visits and talking with him about what we'll do together. I love it when we meet at the train station, seeing him standing there all familiar and cuddly. Love him taking hold of my hand when he's driving. Love holding hands with him, cooking together, watching movies together, sleeping next to each other, taking a shower or bath together. I appreciate all the usually mundane things like shopping together! I love it when he helps me with the animals I work with. I love the way intimacy seems enhanced because we're apart a lot. I love when we're lying there just looking at each other. I love hugging for a long time without the need for words, like in the kitchen for example we'll just stop what we're doing and silently hug for a while. I love his compassion, kindness, quiet nature, the fact we're both socially awkward, and that we have a similar outlook on the world/life. I love visiting places with him, eating out, and going to see bands. I like being silly with him. I like being there for each other. I enjoy feeling close to him and the feeling that he's not far away because he's here in my heart. And I like that he'd joke and say 'god, you really are soppy aren't you' if he read that last sentence, haha! 3
ana0pera Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Great idea! This thread could be useful to have for reflection when we're all struggling I love how silly we are together I like how he shows how vulnerable he is to me, and i am comfortable doing the same I love cuddling when we are together I love how natural it feels when we are together as if we had never parted ways. I like holding hands and kissing in public, things I never thought I would enjoy! I love planning trips with him I love talking to him, hearing about what's going on in his life, even the most mundane things are lively chats I like being intimate with him and as you said, each time we are intimate seems special because we don't have the opportunity to do it like most normal couples do I am thankful for his patience and positive energy 1
CherryT Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 (edited) - I love how even though we're LD, it doesn't seem that "hard". It's hard because we miss each other so much... but we match so well that the relationship itself just works. - I love how we don't fight... and we try our best to talk things through - I love how he can admit when he's wrong - I love how we can be completely ourselves with one another and we fit each other without having to force it - I love how he's so affectionate and caring... he opens all doors (car doors and more) even though he knows I'm capable of doing it myself - I love how he tells me what I need to hear versus what I want to hear and I love that he wants that from me and knows that we both have each others best interest at heart - I love how he always has my back. He never doubts and discredits me and he believes in me more than I believe in myself - I love how he'll wake up and get me a glass of water in the kitchen without me asking - I love how he tells me what he wants from us in the future (kids, marriage, etc) - I love how he will jump over hurdles just to spend 2 nights with me - I love how he is just as proactive in bridging the gap - I love how I never believed in soulmates until I met him. Edited March 11, 2013 by CherryT 1
Esoteric Elf Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 so how about saying what you like/love/appreicate about your relationship/your partner? Hmmm. She is very understanding. Whenever we need "alone time", she is quick to oblige. Away from the hustle and bustle of daily life, she keeps her distance, allowing me to "cool down" from a stressful day at work.
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