MWC Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 I had a relationship with a girl I thought I was going to marry but it was ended by her about a week ago. I'm still unsure of the reason why. She just told me she didn't see a future with us. I tried texting her yesterday to tell her that I miss her. When she didn't reply I asked her if there's anyway we could still be friends because she was my best friend and that I didn't want to lose that too. She told not to text her anymore and that we can talk at work, but that's it. When I asked why she said she couldn't bear to see me? I don't get that. She also threatened to change her number like I was blowing up her phone or something. (I definitely wasn't). We work at a place where we don't have to see each other often but I see her schedule posted and I'm relieving her from her shift 2 weeks from now, so we're going to have to interact occasionally...is there anything I can do to talk sense into her? I'm really hurting here. It makes me think that because she doesnt want me to text her, that she's seeing someone else even though she told me she needed to be alone for a long time. I was kind of living with her (at her house) and now I've had to move back into my parents house which is adding insult to injury. (im 28) Whats weird is that we were planning summer trips and doing great the week before and all of a sudden this happened. God this sucks and I wish she would just call me and tell me that she made a mistake. I feel like I've lost my world and I don't even know what to do anymore, and even if I did, I feel I'd rather just sleep all day.
radinna82 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Hmm, thats an interesting one. I always like to talk things out if I truly love someone. It might be that she just doesnt feel that strongly for you. I know women are mysterious so I could be completely off. If I was in your shoes, heres what I would do. She said she would talk to you at work. I would tell her how I feel and then tell her that you want to give her space, but would also like some questions answered, as that will allow you to focus on that instead of trying to get in touch with her for answers. What you do next all depends on what she says. If there are some issues with you that need to be corrected, then you have to work on that, but if it more that shes just not that into you, then you have no choice but to let her go and maybe she will realize she wants to be with you. as they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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