chida37 Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 Me and my ex have been back in contact and we're in the LC stage. one to two texts a day. About a month ago before we broke up I had bought a non-refundable plane ticket to go see her. She however keeps telling me that she doesn't want me to go because she knows the separation is good for us and she wont be able to not see me if I was at her door step. She said we might get together in the future and there's a chance we might not. She said she wants to be alone right now and enjoy single life. My dilemma is I have already bought the ticket, and part of me wants to go see if me being there will change anything. Should I ignore what she said? Or should I just not see her? Every time that we've fought before seeing her made it go away. However I am also scared to go because I have a feeling she would shut me out. When we talk these days, she sounds cold and distant. What should I do?
TigerCub Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 Respect her enough to respect what she's asking of you. She wants to move on and is specifically telling you NOT to go to her - respect that.
drpepper1886 Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 You might not be able to get refund, but you might be able to get airline voucher to be used at a later date for the amount of the ticket. That way you can use it to take a vacation somewhere.
destroyed4sho Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 She is throwing you breadcrumbs, big ones. Its not fair for you. She is stringing you along. For her own personal reasons.
Author chida37 Posted March 8, 2013 Author Posted March 8, 2013 thanks guys....I think I'll keep my chin up and move on too....
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