Author Estate Posted March 9, 2013 Author Posted March 9, 2013 most people don't ask many questions when they date. Lol! What? 1
CudLRoo Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Good question! I believe the fact of the matter is, there are 2 kinds of men: 1.Those who are incredibly engulfed in attaining a girlfriend, they can't afford to screen or rather want to acquire a woman with a beating heart who will make them happy. 2.Then, those men who can screen women on a whim, because based on their physical attractiveness and dating experiences they are able to do so without effort. It is these men who are able to be picky, over the most trivial physical or personal attributes, and are then seen as top-notch men because of this aura they present. I believe there is at least a third type that I belong to, which is almost a combo of both of the above, but not quite. I'm *very* picky, only go for people I actually find physically and mentally attractive, and DO screen a lot, I'm pretty confident about myself and do OK but I have the occasional tendency to get a bit Shakespearian with the old emotions, and it always sets me back a fair amount of time when it goes a bit wrong. I'd never describe myself as 'desperate', I still have enough pride left not to be that. I WOULD describe myself as over-analytical, mind, so it may just be me. 1
man_in_the_box Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 What a horrible way to live your life... you're saying... I'm desperate, I will literally take anything I can get. How unhealthy is that? Are guys on here really THAT freaking desperate? Why the negative labeling of what others do with their dating life? It's the same as those people that keep claiming that having high standards is shallow, sad and what not. It's the other side of the coin and equally pointless. Doesn't everybody get to decide what their own standards are and why is it neccessary to think that something totally different from yours is such a bad thing?
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Why the negative labeling of what others do with their dating life? It's the same as those people that keep claiming that having high standards is shallow, sad and what not. It's the other side of the coin and equally pointless. Doesn't everybody get to decide what their own standards are and why is it neccessary to think that something totally different from yours is such a bad thing? People have "standards"? oh ho ho ho....ohh ha ha ha...stop it, stop it, you're killing me here!
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