Minneloa Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Well, TBH, just because it is true in a lot of cases doesn't mean it is true ALL the time - and to act like [situation] is always [some particular way]/others who disagree are necessarily in denial, or wrong, well, I can't exactly find advice from somebody who believes in one extreme [OR THE OTHER, so I'm clear] seriously, but that's just me. How does this post address the OP's concerns or help him? 1
Cogee Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 crimsonite, I highly encourage you to post if something goes on your mind as it helps to get these things out. Sometimes it also helps to pretend you are writing a letter/email to your ex and then delete it without sending it. The goal is to get you to talk and to reflect on what happened so that you can learn and move on. You WILL become a better person as a result and who knows what the future has in store. Maybe down the line when you are in a better place mentally your ex will see it and start wanting you. Then again, you may be in such a better place that you will no longer have feelings for your ex as you have moved on or changed. The important thing is to work on yourself and rebuild yourself. There is nothing to lose by doing this because she is already gone.
Minneloa Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 crimsonite, Welcome to LS. I am sorry that you are hurting. This is a great place to come vent, share your experiences, and learn about others' situations and perspectives. Also, here's one of the threads georgia girl mentioned: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/377672-what-would-you-say-your-ex I'm rooting for you.
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