interested/confused Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 Ok so I'm dating/ friends with benefits with a coworker..... anywho this coworker and I hangout at my place at least once a week where he ends up staying the night....... I take him to and from work and run errands together ........ we had "the talk" where we decied tht we r somewhere between dating and friends with benefits right now, he says he doesn't want to move to quickly that he really likes me. ppl at work are noticing and asking what's going on idk what to tell them and id like to be his steady girlfriend and just come out with it! Plus sometimes I feel like he's using me and he really doesn't want a relationship.......... idk what to do I'm so confused.... any advice would be apprieciated!
WhatYouWantToHear Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 id like to be his steady girlfriend and just come out with it What does that mean exactly? Do you expect the relationship to change in any manner? Tell him what you told us and include the answers to both those questions. Then decide if the status quo is a deal breaker, because most likely that's what he likes.
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