ColdandLonelyinAK Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 I am just wondering if any women on the site can tell me of their experiences with military men? I had heard when I moved to this military town to beware of them by many people, but had decided to make that judgment for myself. I have come to find, at least from my own experiences, that maybe those people were correct. Don't get me wrong, I respect our military and all they do, but have found that these guys really want to get into your pants and will discard you like garbage if they don't get what they want (and even if they do). I also have friends and family friends where infidelity is a huge issue in their relationships with these men. Anyone have any insight into this?
will1988 Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 I am just wondering if any women on the site can tell me of their experiences with military men? I had heard when I moved to this military town to beware of them by many people, but had decided to make that judgment for myself. I have come to find, at least from my own experiences, that maybe those people were correct. Don't get me wrong, I respect our military and all they do, but have found that these guys really want to get into your pants and will discard you like garbage if they don't get what they want (and even if they do). I also have friends and family friends where infidelity is a huge issue in their relationships with these men. Anyone have any insight into this? It honestly depends on the man and how old he is. I have several friends who are in the military, most of them have been deployed at some point to iraq and or afghanistan. When they are home they just want to have fun, which includes lots of drinking and sex with women... no strings attached. However, once they settle down a bit they want to have a relationship. Mind you, these guys are from most of the branches and all around the same age, all are in their mid 20s and have been in the military since they graduated high school. I know a lot of the officers and higher enlisted men, the older guys, generally want to settle down. Most of the young enlisted guys want to have fun, just like most college aged guys. Three of my friends are like this, one air force, one navy, and one marine... However, I have another friend who is in the air force, who was like this as well until he met the right girl about a year ago. Now they are engaged and have a house together. He is loyal to her. So it honestly depends on the guy. I would say if you want to find out which guys are the ones to date and the ones that dont want to date, don't put out until at least after a few dates and getting to know the guy. If all the guy wants is to get in your pants, he probably will stop chasing you after a while of you not putting out. however, if the guy likes you and wants to be in a relationship, then he wont care to wait. good luck!
will1988 Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 also, might I point out...that the 3 friends in the 3 different branches who party alot and fool around, all are in their mid 20s and starting to get tired of that life style, and want to start setteling down soon. So I'd say if you are going after a guy who has been in for a while and is in his mid 20s, he may be more likely to date you than just screw you and leave. IMO
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