simps0n Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 Hi all, I had an unsuccessful fling with a girl (a colleague of mine), which resulted in indirect rejection from her side. I would not go into more detail, my feeling is that there is an attraction between us, but I messed things up while we were out a week ago. I noticed some indications that I am entering her "friend zone". Then my mistake was that I made it clear that she's more special to me before asking her out on a real date. That made her feel a bit uncomfortable (maybe things went too fast for her), so I decided to back off for a while. We are working together and I am now trying to ignore my feelings and communicating with her although we see each other almost every day. I think my feelings are a bit stronger than hers and that is preventing me from doing things the right way with this particular girl. From your experience and observations, what would be an appropriate moment / time frame (days, weeks, months) to give it another go? I want to do things properly this time, but I do not wanna get the moment wrong.. Thank you all!
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