charlietheginger Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 I met a women in dollar general last week. Keep in Mind ive lost 40lbs . So this women in a model scout Gives me her number tells me she makes people famous. So i called her and went on a photoshoot with this Photographer. We took over 500pics. So my girlfriend got pissy i left with two females For 6 hours. Calling often but i was working So told me its over im a lying cheating two timer. I told her its all legit..... the photographer emails me a few pics I send them to my girlfriend she calls me Crying apologizing and sorry... so im stuck on a fence she didnt trust me And got mad accused me of cheating... I dunno what to make of this. my photographer Is already telling me once she uploads 20 or so Pics on model mayhem and networks me Ill have work lined up. Im excited about this. But the women of my life Isnt thrilled.... Advice would be great
Author charlietheginger Posted March 8, 2013 Author Posted March 8, 2013 Here is a few pics from the shoot
ja123 Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 She needs some extra TLC and reassurance. Just listen to how she feels, her worries, her insecurities, and reassure her with words, and a big bear hug! Kudos for you on losing the weight and now getting scouted for modelling shoots! That must feel great! You look great in your avatar, too! Is that a photo from the shoot?
ja123 Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 Here is a few pics from the shoot Great photos! You're ripped! Are you in L.A.? Maybe you could get some acting work! 1
Author charlietheginger Posted March 8, 2013 Author Posted March 8, 2013 She needs some extra TLC and reassurance. Just listen to how she feels, her worries, her insecurities, and reassure her with words, and a big bear hug! Kudos for you on losing the weight and now getting scouted for modelling shoots! That must feel great! You look great in your avatar, too! Is that a photo from the shoot? Yes sir that was today i added a few pics just below my Op.. Just two the agent sent she has 500pic to go.through
Author charlietheginger Posted March 8, 2013 Author Posted March 8, 2013 Great photos! You're ripped! Are you in L.A.? Maybe you could get some acting work! Im in florida close between orlando and miami acting Work would be.awsome Thanks.for the compliment i try my best to stay in shape
neveragain34 Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 (edited) Why are you posting photos from the shoot? Do you want advice about your girlfriend or do you want us to rate you?? Was your gf with your before you lost the weight? Edited March 8, 2013 by neveragain34 Hit "save" by accident.
Author charlietheginger Posted March 8, 2013 Author Posted March 8, 2013 I just posted a pic to prove my story isnt BS. Its not everyday some guy gets picked up by A agent makeup artist and photographer driven Around town and taken pics of. Most people spend 100s if not 1000s for headshots Photographs and goto agencies hoping to find work. Im still in shock that its happening before my eyes This is something that does not happen often. I just wanted to lay it out from my girlfriends perspective me ... Oh babe i was in dollar general and a women Wants to photograph me. Girlfriend.. Oh thats nice she is prob just hitting on you 4 days later Me.. Oh ill be gone all day that agent wants me for the day Girlfriend... What huh huh I talk with her a few times she heres women talking Later that night screams were done its over Untill i showed her pics. Now it was short notice But when opportunity call one must go. Thats my compliant trust issues. She apologized
ascendotum Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 So my girlfriend got pissy i left with two females For 6 hours. Calling often but i was working So told me its over im a lying cheating two timer. so im stuck on a fence she didnt trust me And got mad accused me of cheating... Advice would be great Good on you ctg. Life is looking pretty good for you at the moment. Being a ginger may actually give you an edge in the modeling scene. For me anyway that sort of melodramatic show would piss me off, but if she was sincere in her apologies afterwards and I didn't have to plead with her or go to a lot of trouble to convince her it would go along way to smoothing things. I'd say don't be shocked if she going to be jealous of other women going forward and also inclined to snoop on you. Just see how things go, and if opportunities evolve from this photo shoot her insecurities could be tested again soon. It could spin in her mind (legitimate concern imo) that if things take off for you, you might get carried away with temptation & yourself over having more options coming your way than in the past. It was funny listening in on with sister and her friends, when one of them would snag a confident edgy/hot guy, they were ecstatic that was the guy they wanted but they would also get distressed that they were not good enough, that it wouldn't last, that other girls were flirting with him, that he couldn't be trusted, that they were maybe not as good as his exes, etc, etc. double the emotion which likely contributed to blow up the relationship.
ja123 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Im in florida close between orlando and miami acting Work would be.awsome Thanks.for the compliment i try my best to stay in shape Sign up for some acting classes, if you don't have training .. and shop dem photos around!!!!
kiss_andmakeup Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 You're very handsome, Charlie! I hope doing the photo shoots gave you a good confidence boost. Your girlfriend probably just needs some reassurance. Given that you probably weren't doing this modeling stuff when you met her, she probably feels a bit insecure about it. Maybe worries that you'll meet a female model whom you'd rather be with or that you find more attractive. As Ja said, try to offer her TLC and tell her how much you care about her. If this becomes a recurring issue, then I'd say it's a problem.
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Posted March 9, 2013 Here is a few pics from the shoot *shivers* I pity anyone who dares pick a fight with you.
Author charlietheginger Posted March 15, 2013 Author Posted March 15, 2013 You're very handsome, Charlie! I hope doing the photo shoots gave you a good confidence boost. Your girlfriend probably just needs some reassurance. Given that you probably weren't doing this modeling stuff when you met her, she probably feels a bit insecure about it. Maybe worries that you'll meet a female model whom you'd rather be with or that you find more attractive. As Ja said, try to offer her TLC and tell her how much you care about her. If this becomes a recurring issue, then I'd say it's a problem. Thanks everyone. It was infact jealousy 2days later after we broke up She came over and told me while i was gone that day she feared i would break up With her when i returned. So she broke up with me first. She is now supportive and happt About my next photoshoot. Ive been in the gym alot more getting Ready for shirtless photos at the end of the month. Being im excited and happy my attitude about life has changed for The best . Im even happier with her now then ever before. Now That im finally happy with myself. Things are gonna work out. Someone asked me if she was with me before i lost 40lbs No i just met her 2months ago. but thats o.k .
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 I think communication is just very important in these situations...especially when this just sounds like a clear flirtatious ploy by another woman, and kind of a cover-up or BS excuse to spend time with this woman. I think you've got to worry more when a woman doesn't care anymore, than when she does. So I think her jealousy and emotions got the best of her, but maybe she's cheated on in her past or has some issues which exacerbated that reaction. Once she's able to listen and understand, she may or may not be ok with it...however if it's legitimate at least she can understand it and try to be supportive...especially if the photographer is unattractive. I know If I was in her shoes, and my GF told me that...I'd kinda roll my eyes at it and think whatever, or probably make some sarcastic joke because I'm a jerk sometimes...but then if she went out with this guy I'd be a bit curious...and as I rolled up my car to the park, I better get out and see some flamboyant little 120 pound guy dressed in black, with a silk scarf around his neck an elaborate hairstyle along with all this other artsy nonsense so that I may spare his life.
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