Coping Vortex Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 I accidently clicked on old message from my FB Messenger Phone app. It was her picture next to old conversation from two years ago. Wow!!! I got weak at the knees. It hurt like hell. It made me sick to my stomach and feeling even more depressed than ever. Makes me miss her all over again. I am no longer friends with her on FB. And NEVER go to her FB page. I don't want to see anything she is doing. I had no idea I would stumble on this old conversation on my phone no less. Do yourself a favor try delete any and ALL traces of the ex. Its just too painful.
creighton0123 Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 Yeah. In the same boat as you. Opening up all of the wounds all over again.
na49 Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 Old pictures hurt me, but new pictures of her hurt me even more. The girl I was with is not the girl who is stinking up my college campus with her lies and disregard for other people.
Harradin Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 I just received a PM from the forum that I chose to leave as my ex and "friend" had no other lives then going to their events so it would have delayed my healing seeing them (and I would have probably beat the sh*t out of my "friend") and as I opened the message, all the old memories came back and it hurt bad. I replied to the PM (a friend couldn't figure out where I vanished off too as I changed numbers, deactivated FB etc,) but I couldn't leave it fast enough!
McDonald Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 Old messages suck,... I know if I click on my ex name on fb chat theres only one messages during the time of the breakup... the messages before that is "finish your studying so you can come over and have s*x"..... lol kinda funny
BarbecueMan666 Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 Old pictures hurt me, but new pictures of her hurt me even more. The girl I was with is not the girl who is stinking up my college campus with her lies and disregard for other people. Not sure what you're going through but that sounds incredibly similar to me. My ex made youtube videos - and since me has cut her hair very short, below shoulder length - I guess kinda trendy looking, Botox'd her lips or something (they're much larger now - she did it before and always wanted them bigger with me) - and dresses way more scandalously. Her new videos consist of her being way more sexual, and her life style before me was that of a person that slept around a lot. I'm not really sure how I'm meant to deal with that happily. Trying to go through the approach that I managed to satisfy her and keep her happy for as long as I did, which was 1.5 years. But the new photos and such (which I've stopped scouting for) definitely hurt me a lot more than the old ones.
thefooloftheyear Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 Not sure what you're going through but that sounds incredibly similar to me. My ex made youtube videos - and since me has cut her hair very short, below shoulder length - I guess kinda trendy looking, Botox'd her lips or something (they're much larger now - she did it before and always wanted them bigger with me) - and dresses way more scandalously. Her new videos consist of her being way more sexual, and her life style before me was that of a person that slept around a lot. I'm not really sure how I'm meant to deal with that happily. Trying to go through the approach that I managed to satisfy her and keep her happy for as long as I did, which was 1.5 years. But the new photos and such (which I've stopped scouting for) definitely hurt me a lot more than the old ones. Sounds like an attention whore....the WORST kind of woman you will ever find...consider yourself fortunate. I mean who the hell makes You Tube video's of themselves. Are they that self-absorbed?? Dont torture yourselves guys...Just dump FB and be done with it. Its a stupid site anyway. Most of the people on there just create false personas while their REAL life is actually a mess. STAY STRONG. TFOY
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