9Lives Posted September 6, 2004 Posted September 6, 2004 I hear a lot of men say when they got married. she stopped doing it. Why and who is still getting it done on a regular.
Papillon Posted September 6, 2004 Posted September 6, 2004 Now, you see, Viagra is not an erection pill, it's an anti-venom to counteract the effects of wedding cake.
Karlise13 Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 Mmm, something to er...chew on. Hey, I'll do whatever BF wants as long as I'm hot and bothered enough!!! As for the 'marriage' thing....well, I find marriage such a turnoff to begin with. So we have stayed unmarried and are quite happy with that.
Quilly Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 This is because some women will pretend (whether they'll admit to it or not) to like doing whatever it takes to get the man to the alter... then, once the honeymoon is over you'll find out what she really does or doesn't like.
honey2005 Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 This is because some women will pretend (whether they'll admit to it or not) to like doing whatever it takes to get the man to the alter... then, once the honeymoon is over you'll find out what she really does or doesn't like. Oooo Harsh I find marriage a major turn on and I think that if I can do something with him before I'm married, I can do it afterwards, too.
RowanRavyn Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 Marriage shouldn't be the turn off. Think about it. Sex with the same person does not have to be boring. Its an opportunity to build trust with someone. Trust enough to try new things. Monogomy is a turn on to me. I don't do casual sex anyway, but when I was dating there was no way a guy was going to get a casual BJ out of me. Now with my honey, that is a totally different story. He gets anything he wants.
Quilly Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 This... I find marriage a major turn on... plus this... Hey, I'll do whatever BF wants as long as I'm hot and bothered enough!!! equals... You're probably not getting any of it after you get married. It happens all the time.
FolderWife Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 Quite frankly, I looked forward to marriage, so I wouldn't have to do that any more, because I considered oral sex the alternative to natural sex, because I didn't want to have sex with a bunch of people before I got married, for fear of STDs, and babies!!! Once I got married, however, I learned that men still like oral sex Silly me. Sex is not as exciting after I got married. So I just want to get er done sometimes, and not go through all the rigamaroar of foreplay. BUT, since I love my husband dearly, I will give him oral sex pretty much any time he asks for it...although I rarely initiate it. In fact, I gave him a 30 minute one yesterday, and I had the nicest, plump, red, tingly lips afterwards....I think I may do it more often, for the lovely lucious lips that I get afterwards My lips were comparable with Angelina's after that
Matilda Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 I have found that marriage has only improved all aspects of my sexual relationship with my husband. Although I will say we have had our ups and downs. (No pun intended! )
FolderWife Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 I found marriage to be a turn off BECAUSE! 1 We can do it whenever we want, and we don't have to be quite 2 He takes me for granted a lot more now 3 I take him for granted now 4 I do his laundry 5 He never buys me flowers, or writes me love letters, or calls just because he missed me so much 6 Um....wheres the foreplay for me 7 He hardly gives me a full on tongue kiss....unless we're doing it. Marriage is just different. It's not a turn off because it's with one person, it's a turn off, because there's a lot more to marriage than just the relationship. There's bills, and jobs, and in laws, and arguments over the aforementioned stresses. When I got home from a long weekend with my parents, and having not spoken to him for 2+ days, I jumped his bones within 10 minutes of arriving home. We couldn't get enough of each other. My lack of libido has nothing to do with him being the only person I'm with, it has to with...uh....being around each other too much, taking each other for granted, being unneccessarily mean to each other, because we know we can get by with it, because the other person will take it if we take out all of our frustration on each other, etc etc There is a lot more to marriage=lack of sexual stuff than just being with one person all the time. I still can get off on sucking his wang dang occasionally...in fact, I occasionally crave it...but not as much as before I got married. P.S. Before marriage, men will clean, and perfume down there, for their prospective oral...after marriage, they come in from mowing grass, and want it. CAN YA SAY EW!!! My husband is very clean down there He won't let me near him, unless he's soaped and powdered and I APPRECIATE it
LolaLopez Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 I really would do anything my h. wants but he slacks in the foreplay department. And same with the kissing...no more hot make out tongue kisses. What the hell is up with that? I haven't changed physically since we met. He's the one with the gut but I would still make love to him whenever. Also, we never have dates at all. Mostly, he is a huge slacker and does not care. Oh my. Now I feel depressed. Lola
binturong Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 Why don't you initiate it yourself? I found that when my fiance and I moved in together, the making out and foreplay slacked off a little too. I agree with Monday...when someone's always around and you know you can get it at anytime, you usually end up putting it on the back burner. It's just not as big of a priority anymore. So when I want something, I just go for it. Plant yourself in his lap and start tongue kissing him. Get him all hot and bothered and he'll be happy to do the same for you. Put on some sexy lingerie to greet him when he comes home. Plus my man knows that the more satisfied I am, the more likely it'll be that he gets THAT. If I'm getting it on a regular basis, so is he. And no, that won't change once we're married. I like doing it all too much to stop just because of that.
JumpRun Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Probably for reasons in line with why men quit doing certain things after having been married a while.
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