serial muse Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 Why not tell him you really like him, but you're worried he doesn't feel the same way, you're worried about being played - and you'd like to get serious, as long as you guys are on the same page, and he feels likewise.... Get a grip and grab the bull by the balls, honey - go for it! OP, the above is exactly what I'd advise you to do. Tell him (not via text!!) that you panicked a bit in that earlier conversation, because you weren't sure what your status is and you don't want to push too hard. But that the truth is you really like him and you want to be exclusive. If he doesn't want that too, after all this time...well, then that's on him. But you don't know that from this conversation - instead, you basically told him that you consider YOURSELF single (and by extension, him). See? That's the problem here. If you want things to turn out how you want, you're going to have to fix that first. Stand up tall, take a deep breath, and be direct. No more games or tests.
Author CantBelieve10 Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 I hadn't checked up on this thread since last week. I feel like the more recent posts are much more understanding of the situation im in. Feels good to know that some peeps out there understand my behavior, not that i think what i did was totally ok but it wasnt for no reason and whats done is done. Just to update, I did hang with him during the weekend and was DYING to have a conversation with him, but unfortunately couldnt because the opportunity never came up, as we were hanging out with friends. Oh ya, he finally invited me somewhere! As far as how we've been together, he seems to be more into me? I dont know. It's as if he was extra excited/happy to hang with me, and he's been especially cutesy with me. All very strange and confusing, but nothing new there.
TaraMaiden Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 And so you still haven't had 'the talk'....? Why not call him on the 'phone then? Genuinely. Why don't you?
MidwestUSA Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 And so you still haven't had 'the talk'....? Why not call him on the 'phone then? Genuinely. Why don't you? Because then the game would end?
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