mortensorchid Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 I was thinking about this guy I had had a few get togethers with a few months ago. For more information about this, see this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/363526-next-he-didn-t-show Reponses I got were varied, someone asked "If you don't even like him, why are you considering otherwise?" I wondered about that. Did I NOT like him? He seemed perfectly fine, but I think the problem stemed from something else. He said in my initial IMs that he was flattered to think that someone like me would go for someone like him. He's a nerd, admittedly, is rather introverted, and doesn't have much of a social life. I'm far more social and have an active social life. Not to boast, but I think it was not a meeting of personalities. I have more charisma and am unafraid of being in new situations, he seemed the opposite. I think over time the self esteem issues would have been too much to handle on his part. Maybe this will help others out there somehow. Best to move on.
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