outsidethebox Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 I think I have a fantastic personality, I'm laid back, funny and know how to give a man space, mostly because I want it too! I may be a little guarded, but who the hell isn't? And as for what every one else is saying, maybe I was looking past the whole they aren't worth it thing, because I want them to be. Too bad I'm not into girls, cause I would totally just be a lesbian. Men say women are complicated, but I think it really is the other way around. what in that response would attract a guy to you?
TheGuard13 Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 This isn't true for everyone, but a lot of men see sex as part of a relationship, and as part of dating. That's just how it is. They're not going to wait around a couple of weeks just because you want them to, and they will see it as a "game" . They're going to leave and find someone who isn't so hung up on the idea of sex in general. These days, If I was attracted to a woman, unless I REALLY liked her, I don't think I'd wait past three dates for something sexual. If you're going to "go against the grain", don't be surprised when a lot of men aren't okay with that. Or maybe you're just dating *******s.
outsidethebox Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 The last guy I met, we went for a drive and had really good conversation and that was that. He actually asked me earlier today, which is why I started the thread, when I was going to show him a "good time" Here's where we disprove that guys are complicated. The only thing you should show him is the door.
Author medasist Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 sooo, he's not so smooth in the tact department. I've had one or two who were like that. If it were me, I would have laughed and said "I thought I already did!" and see if he gets the hint. If he kept at it, then I'd have to be more blunt. Here is the thing though... you realize that going for a drive with a guy you just met may not be a good idea?? For safety reasons. How did you meet him? I'm not trying to put this on you.. not at all... just want to make sure you aren't putting yourself in a precarious position. That was actually my idea, we had great conversation, can't really do anything else ya know? and I met him at a bar, he is the bouncer and the bar I hang out at on the weekends. And just for the sake of saying it, I did drop him. Still friendly though, can't ruin my bar experience that easily haha
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