Sloan Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 I recently broke up with my girlfriend of three years and prior to dating her I was confused to whether I wanted to wait till marriage to have intercourse or wait till I found someone special. She was my first and I was hers, we eventually had intercourse after 9 months of dating. The problem is now (Alittle over one month of being broken up) I have been thinking whether I should wait till marriage or do the same thing again because I feel so humiliated that something so special was just wasted on someone who didn't seem to care as much as I did. I also wondering if any of you out there have this issue and if it's just part of the moving on/breaking up process. I am definitely afraid to try it again because I'm afraid it could happen again. Thank you everyone and have a great day!
Kali-Persad Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 What if you waited until marriage, and then ended up with a divorce? Would you feel any better? Marriage, is no longer treated like a permanent, lifelong relationship. It is no longer sacred and subject to being dissolved, just like any other non-blood relationship. 1
Author Sloan Posted March 7, 2013 Author Posted March 7, 2013 What if you waited until marriage, and then ended up with a divorce? Would you feel any better? Marriage, is no longer treated like a permanent, lifelong relationship. It is no longer sacred and subject to being dissolved, just like any other non-blood relationship. That is very true looking at it that way. I also think it depends on the individual who you were with. I have always been one to wait and build on a relationship first before going into that because I think intercourse is a perk to a relationship. But when your ex leaves you and then has intercourse day or weeks later, it kind of hurts you because all those days building on the relationship she stated she wasn't that kind of person.
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