irc333 Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 ....I think she MAY be dating someone else, but I can only tell by this in her FB photos, because I noticed quite a few photos of her and another guy up on FB at a concert, kinda "together" in an affectionate way. I hear that some women will never admit to dating a guy that they're "transitioning" into, even though it's blantantly obvious.....but if I ask her out, and it's obvious she MIGHT be dating that guy....I kind of know him....would htat be rude of me? OR, should ask her, "Hey, I noticed from the pictures of you and Bill at the concert that you two MIGHT be dating? is this true....that way, I know whether or not to ask you out?"
iKING Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 "Hey, are you and that Bill guy dating?" "response" "Ah, well, I was wondering if you'd like to go out for drinks sometime?" Fixed. If it isn't outwardly apparent I can't see you being at fault for asking. 2
todreaminblue Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 ....I think she MAY be dating someone else, but I can only tell by this in her FB photos, because I noticed quite a few photos of her and another guy up on FB at a concert, kinda "together" in an affectionate way. I hear that some women will never admit to dating a guy that they're "transitioning" into, even though it's blantantly obvious.....but if I ask her out, and it's obvious she MIGHT be dating that guy....I kind of know him....would htat be rude of me? OR, should ask her, "Hey, I noticed from the pictures of you and Bill at the concert that you two MIGHT be dating? is this true....that way, I know whether or not to ask you out?" i would say....how long have you been checking out my facebook page ......or where did you see those photos..... question with a question.... why not just say i would like to take you out get to know you are you dating anyone at the moment so the question you ask has nothing but the idea of going out with you an dyou are verifying she is single first ......instead of her getting thoughts of how and where has this guy seen photos of me ...does he have a zoom lens or what? if you know of a place she loves suggest there...that is my opinion though.......best wishes....deb
Author irc333 Posted March 6, 2013 Author Posted March 6, 2013 why not just say i would like to take you out get to know you are you dating anyone at the moment so the question you ask has nothing but the idea of going out with you an dyou are verifying she is single first ......instead of her getting thoughts of how and where has this guy seen photos of me ...does he have a zoom lens or what? if you know of a place she loves suggest there...that is my opinion though.......best wishes....deb She is single...but I asked her out under the assumption she wasn't seeing anyone.
todreaminblue Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 She is single...but I asked her out under the assumption she wasn't seeing anyone. so you asked her out ......how did it go irc?
Ami1uwant Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 She is single...but I asked her out under the assumption she wasn't seeing anyone. If you asked her out and she said no she isnt interested. If you asked her and she dodged the question then there is some uncertainty there. She isnt sure with you or the current guy she is likely dating. Generally women want to feel they are upgrading on the man they are dating if they flip the men they date.
Soxfaninfl Posted March 7, 2013 Posted March 7, 2013 ....I think she MAY be dating someone else, but I can only tell by this in her FB photos, because I noticed quite a few photos of her and another guy up on FB at a concert, kinda "together" in an affectionate way. I hear that some women will never admit to dating a guy that they're "transitioning" into, even though it's blantantly obvious.....but if I ask her out, and it's obvious she MIGHT be dating that guy....I kind of know him....would htat be rude of me? OR, should ask her, "Hey, I noticed from the pictures of you and Bill at the concert that you two MIGHT be dating? is this true....that way, I know whether or not to ask you out?" If there is any doubt that this girl is seeing someone then I wouldn't even attempt it. I don't care how beautiful or how great of personality she has. She is with someone, and she is off limits. I would never want to be responsible for breaking up a relationship.
Author irc333 Posted March 7, 2013 Author Posted March 7, 2013 Just ask her out, then you'll know. If she's seeing someone, she'll let you know. Your cart is getting way ahead of your horse again. Well, I asked her out, and we're getting together this weekend for coffee, donuts and church. Though I wonder if she thinks it's a date. She has a lot of pics of her up with other male "friends" on FB, her going out with them. One time someone saw her with a guy on FB, and they were commenting, "Oooo...who is the new man in your life?" And she's like " We're just friends"
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