love1336x Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 my boyfriend is 18. His last girlfriend is 16. They decided to stay friends after their break up. However, when he met me. He stopped talking to her. BUT now... she BACK. Yesterday she was blowing up his phone like CRAZY. Telling him, "this isn't fair... I dont even want you!" "please write back" My boyfriend said he will handle this... But, I kinda want to tell her to back off. I ask my friends, and my mom. They all tell me leave it alone, because of her age... >__< UGH!! SO ANNOYING!!! What would you do?
NapoleonNotSheep Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 This is joke right? He was with her before he met you. They are not together anymore and he is not interested in her because if he would be then he wouldn't make you his gf. So let him handle this and even if they talk it won't kill you unless he starts to lie or cheat or something... Just don't be controlling it will end ur relationship.
Toddbt12y1 Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 my boyfriend is 18. His last girlfriend is 16. They decided to stay friends after their break up. However, when he met me. He stopped talking to her. BUT now... she BACK. Yesterday she was blowing up his phone like CRAZY. Telling him, "this isn't fair... I dont even want you!" "please write back" My boyfriend said he will handle this... But, I kinda want to tell her to back off. I ask my friends, and my mom. They all tell me leave it alone, because of her age... >__< UGH!! SO ANNOYING!!! What would you do? Go into more detail, about what she was saying, on his phone. Give us your age too. I believe you are young, it is easy to tell(and obvious). He can handle this, trust in him. However, I can understand your concerns. Not everyone can handle their lover being friends with an ex.
Author love1336x Posted March 7, 2013 Author Posted March 7, 2013 Lol, I am 22. They dated for about six months. But, she lives really far about an hour away. He doesn't have a good job to have visited her often, and she doesn't work at all. They met last year in a concert. it was nothing serious, so he have told me. I am not gonna lie, I did felt uncomfortable. She was ALWAYS texting him photos of herself, (not naked) always calling and texting him. Once I told him how i felt. He STOPPED talking to her out of his own free will. I never ONCE guilt trip him. NEVER once said, "BABE YOU GOTTA STOP" So, yesterday he tells me and showed me. That Mere, (thats her real name lol) was texting him again. And from what i could see she was really being needy, and desperate. She send him about 10 messages of "Hey... hey... please please talk to me!!" "I miss you!" He didn't write anything back beside, "leave me alone". She eventually stopped, but I am afraid... she WONT. I feel maybe if i do say something she will stop and see that he is SERIOUS with me. We been dating for three months... lol. Sometimes, he can be a butt, but he's mine and I am his. <3
Author love1336x Posted March 7, 2013 Author Posted March 7, 2013 This is joke right? He was with her before he met you. They are not together anymore and he is not interested in her because if he would be then he wouldn't make you his gf. So let him handle this and even if they talk it won't kill you unless he starts to lie or cheat or something... Just don't be controlling it will end ur relationship. I am not friends with any of my exes. He promised he wouldnt talk to her anymore. The past is the past. I am his present. NO reason why he should have even kept communication. Now, she doesn't get the HINT how he doesnt want to talk to her anymore.
slovek Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 does she know he has a girlfriend now and its you? - i feel sorry for her somehow since she is not over him so she is going though heart break. But good thing is he is honest with you.
CC12 Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 I feel maybe if i do say something she will stop and see that he is SERIOUS with me. Don't say anything to her. First, you are an adult and she is a child. You should not be contacting her for any reason at all. Second, this is your boyfriend's problem to solve and he's handling it. Leave it up to him.
Author love1336x Posted March 10, 2013 Author Posted March 10, 2013 does she know he has a girlfriend now and its you? - i feel sorry for her somehow since she is not over him so she is going though heart break. But good thing is he is honest with you. Yeah. He have told her. Plus had her on facebook. Lol. Thats why im never friends with an ex. Watching them move on is sad.
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