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You talk a lot about the phone, but I found it to be much more of a red flag that he obviously wasn't at the hotel he told you he was at for his "guys weekend" trip and it sounds like it would be easier to get information about.

 

Have you asked him about this trip and what you found out? If so, what was his response?

Yeah, sorry I kind of skimmed over that and wasn't very clear. That is definitely contributed to the weird feeling I have, but I wasn't able to find much out from him.

 

I didn't have the name of the place he was staying, but I had the phone number. I called the number, and the receptionist didn't have a reservation under any of the names (my husband's, his friends he was supposed to be with, or his friend's wive's names), so she said I had to have the room number. So I texted my husband (because he said he could send iMessages through Wi-Fi but didn't have reception for a phone call) asking for the number. A few minutes later he texted the room number and I did talk to him for a few minutes.

 

So he was either in a hotel that wasn't his, he was with someone I don't know about who made the reservation under her name, or there is some completely random, innocent explanation for why there is no appropriate reservation.

 

My husband, obviously, is claiming option #3.

 

I'm working on getting proof of something now before pressing the issue. All that would come of confronting him right now is that I'm calling him a liar with no proof and he will know what I'm thinking.

 

And, I have asked him to go to MC in the past, and he won't go.

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