1money3 Posted September 5, 2004 Posted September 5, 2004 When a MM cheats on his wife with an OW and then decides to divorce his wife and marries the OW, no matter what circumstances caused him to stray, what make the OW think he will be faithful to her? 1. If he was unsatisified with his marriage, why doesn't the MM get a divorced instead of having a relationship with the OW? 2. If he has children, the ex-wife will ALWAYS be a part of his life! 3. No matter what he tells you, he will always compare you to his ex-wife. 4. You will always have a trust issue with him. Why? Because when he start telling you he is working late several times a week, you will remember how he use to tell his wife the same story in order to see you. REMEMBER, ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. or WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND!
9Lives Posted September 5, 2004 Posted September 5, 2004 Sweetheart, this is simply not true. I am sorry. I would say the majority of the time it is but it is not a CONCRETE FACT that it will happen to the ow because it happen to the wife. I am telling, sometimes these things dont completely fail.
Quilly Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 I agree with jvjrose... having an affair does not make you a lying, cheating, terrible person for the rest of your life. People can live and learn... just not everyone chooses to do so.
Benedict Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 "having an affair does not make you a lying, cheating, terrible person for the rest of your life" roflmfao... Then for how long does it make one a "lying, cheating, terrible person"? ...and can YOU tell when the change takes place?
Quilly Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 Thank you Benedict, you are correct.... that would be better phrased as "having an affair does not make you a terrible person nor does it mean you will be a cheater for the rest of your life." Cheating again is a personal choice, not a guaranteed fact.
9Lives Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 People changed and I know that for a fact. Just because the guy cheated on his first w does not mean it is going to be the same thing the second time around. People WANT to think that is the case but it is really not always so. Every relationship is unique in it own way.
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