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Who wouldn't blame me for ripping apart a fat woman for complaining about her situation when I was a guy who has dated dozens of good looking women of all types and has had women approach me since forever?

 

Wow.

 

If those fat women kept creating these self pitty threads like short men do, we would end up hating them as much as we hate the whiney short losers here. Not because they are short but because they whinge all the time. Everyone hates negative people, it's just the way the world works. They dwell in their misery and we hate them.

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This is why the battle of the sexes rages here. Some ass will claim that all women are bad. A woman will fight back by saying that all men are bad. Just two posts in and everyone on the planet has been insulted.

I agree.

 

The fundamental problem here is that nobody learns. Everyone jams their POV into the mix, express dissatisfaction yet never actually change anything - and wonder why they always have problems. I saw we all stop blaming gender and start looking to ourselves and what we can do to overcome our obstacles.

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It would look bad.

 

But if said fat woman was endlessly complaining and not doing anything about their dating problems, blaming men for it and finding every reason to throw the advice back in the faces of people who take the time to post them, then I wouldn't blame you.

 

The thing about fatness is that it can be solved. I was a really fat kid in school but later from playing basketball and football I became quite thin. I go to gym now whenever I can to stay in shape. Height on the other hand, that cannot be controlled.

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If those fat women kept creating these self pitty threads like short men do, we would end up hating them as much as we hate the whiney short losers here. Not because they are short but because they whinge all the time. Everyone hates negative people, it's just the way the world works. They dwell in their misery and we hate them.

Precisely.

 

Do you think anybody went easy on Verhrzn when she went off on one? Or when DY always talks about porn and men?

 

Saying that, I don't "hate" negative people. I feel sorry for them and STILL try to help them even when they don't listen. Perhaps it's to my own detriment to do so myself.

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The thing about fatness is that it can be solved. I was a really fat kid in school but later from playing basketball and football I became quite thin. I go to gym now whenever I can to stay in shape. Height on the other hand, that cannot be controlled.

My brother is 5 foot 6 and has had GFs. I have an old friend who is getting married very soon who is 5 foot 3 and did pretty well with women.

 

Contrast to me, who is 6 foot 3 and only lost my virginity last year at 23.

 

Trust me - it's not all about height.

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I agree.

 

The fundamental problem here is that nobody learns. Everyone jams their POV into the mix, express dissatisfaction yet never actually change anything - and wonder why they always have problems. I saw we all stop blaming gender and start looking to ourselves and what we can do to overcome our obstacles.

 

EXACTLY.

 

Nobody learns!

 

One poster has been called a whiner for complaining about being short and ANOTHER poster has been called shallow, callous, and mean for their mindset.

 

But both will continue on their path.

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I have a few friends whove dated short guys and theyve had no problems at all.

 

These women were what some of you short men probably ignore and think you're better then in obese women but maybe if you opened your minds up and dated unconventional looking women who have flaws and are unconventional like you then youd be more sucessful.

 

Instead of going after hot women who have options to date tall dark and handsome and will use it go after women whove been ignored and shunned like you have and maybe youll find love and sucess

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My brother is 5 foot 6 and has had GFs. I have an old friend who is getting married very soon who is 5 foot 3 and did pretty well with women.

 

Contrast to me, who is 6 foot 3 and only lost my virginity last year at 23.

 

Trust me - it's not all about height.

 

There are other factors too that plays part like money.

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There are other factors too that plays part like money.

:laugh: You think those short guys are rich? They aren't. Hell, my brother is balding at 21, to go with his height :laugh:. He does just fine. Mind you, soon he may well be rich.....

 

I have a few friends whove dated short guys and theyve had no problems at all.

 

These women were what some of you short men probably ignore and think you're better then in obese women but maybe if you opened your minds up and dated unconventional looking women who have flaws and are unconventional like you then youd be more sucessful.

 

Instead of going after hot women who have options to date tall dark and handsome and will use it go after women whove been ignored and shunned like you have and maybe youll find love and sucess

 

You're saying they should date obese women?

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There are other factors too that plays part like money.

 

 

You forgot the biggest factor, they actually like themselves.

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You forgot the biggest factor, they actually like themselves.

This.

 

It also came across in the way they dealt with people.

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:laugh: You think those short guys are rich? They aren't. Hell, my brother is balding at 21, to go with his height :laugh:. He does just fine. Mind you, soon he may well be rich.....

 

 

 

You're saying they should date obese women?

 

I'm guessing the women are highly aware of that.

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You forgot the biggest factor, they actually like themselves.

 

Cool. Too bad that never really worked for me in my first 23 to 24 years of my life.

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I'm guessing the women are highly aware of that.

No.

 

He doesn't broadcast his business like that.

 

Stop trying to find excuses.

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Cool. Too bad that never really worked for me in my first 23 to 24 years of my life.

 

The way you post, I bet IRL you come off as anything but a man that likes himself.

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:laugh: You think those short guys are rich? They aren't. Hell, my brother is balding at 21, to go with his height :laugh:. He does just fine. Mind you, soon he may well be rich.....

 

 

 

You're saying they should date obese women?

 

Im saying we have made it clear that shortness is a huge flaw but you can overcome it just like obesity is a huge flaw in attracting a mate

 

It can be overcome though so why not have two people who have huge flaws and are ignored/shunned by the opposite sex get together rather then shoot for people with no or less flaws when most people are evenly matched up when it comes to looks

 

My guess is short men who are whining go for attractive in shape women and cant understand why they keep getting rejectd they need to lower their standards

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No.

 

He doesn't broadcast his business like that.

 

Stop trying to find excuses.

 

I don't know. There's gotta be something.

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Cool. Too bad that never really worked for me in my first 23 to 24 years of my life.

 

I think part of your problem might be that you think there are these steadfast, oftentimes singular qualities that dictate attraction. Just because there was a time where you weren't insecure and didn't get women doesn't mean that being secure isn't the answer. Did you consider it in conjunction with any of your other qualities? Did you consider all that in conjunction with the personal tastes of the women you were talking to? I'm guessing not.

 

You're blind to the multiple variables in play; it seems as if you only see the ones you want to complain about.

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Im saying we have made it clear that shortness is a huge flaw but you can overcome it just like obesity is a huge flaw in attracting a mate

 

It can be overcome though so why not have two people who have huge flaws and are ignored/shunned by the opposite sex get together rather then shoot for people with no or less flaws when most people are evenly matched up when it comes to looks

 

My guess is short men who are whining go for attractive in shape women and cant understand why they keep getting rejectd they need to lower their standards

 

Yeah, with money. And what's short by the way? What height in men do you consider short? Be honest.

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I have a few friends whove dated short guys and theyve had no problems at all.

 

These women were what some of you short men probably ignore and think you're better then in obese women but maybe if you opened your minds up and dated unconventional looking women who have flaws and are unconventional like you then youd be more sucessful.

 

Instead of going after hot women who have options to date tall dark and handsome and will use it go after women whove been ignored and shunned like you have and maybe youll find love and sucess

 

So a guy whos in great shape handsome face but an inch or two below average height is somehow the male equivalent of an obese women?:laugh: i give up

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I don't know. There's gotta be something.

 

Yeah, that something is they don't care how many women are shallow - they like women and they go for it. They are fun, they look at life positively, and they don't care about being short.

 

Im saying we have made it clear that shortness is a huge flaw but you can overcome it just like obesity is a huge flaw in attracting a mate

 

It can be overcome though so why not have two people who have huge flaws and are ignored/shunned by the opposite sex get together rather then shoot for people with no or less flaws when most people are evenly matched up when it comes to looks

 

My guess is short men who are whining go for attractive in shape women and cant understand why they keep getting rejectd they need to lower their standards

 

This is basically settling. I don't agree that this is necessarily the answer. Now me personally, I like girls that are thick :p. However, I think that people shouldn't date people they wouldn't be attracted to and at least somewhat happy with in the long run. Recipe for disaster for both men and women.

 

Also, short men aren't necessarily the equivalent of an obese woman, I'm not sure why that comparison comes up as much as it does.

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Yeah, that something is they don't care how many women are shallow - they like women and they go for it. They are fun, they look at life positively, and they don't care about being short.

 

 

 

This is basically settling. I don't agree that this is necessarily the answer. Now me personally, I like girls that are thick :p. However, I think that people shouldn't date people they wouldn't be attracted to and at least somewhat happy with in the long run. Recipe for disaster for both men and women.

 

Also, short men aren't necessarily the equivalent of an obese woman, I'm not sure why that comparison comes up as much as it does.

 

Lol obese women have a 10 times better chance in the dating game than short men.

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Lol obese women have a 10 times better chance in the dating game than short men.

:laugh: FFS

 

*no more infractions, no more infractions........*

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Lol obese women have a 10 times better chance in the dating game than short men.

 

I have to strongly disagree with this...obese women have it much tougher.

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I have to strongly disagree with this...obese women have it much tougher.

 

So naive. I'm sure after a certain age, the percentage of virgin short males is much much higher than the percentage of virgin obese females.

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