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ThaWholigan Established Member

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What exactly is the point of you saying this?

 

I mean most men probably like it better when a white women likes us as oppose to an asian one but why would i go out of my way to say that other then blatantly trying to be a jerkoff

The point is to get you to stop being pussies and go do something about your dating lives instead of moaning about it for the rest of your life.

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Emilia Established Member

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I reiterate, though: we [women] like when we fall for a taller guy and he falls for us more so than we like when we fall for a shorter guy and he falls for us.

 

This I disagree with but everything else is spot on

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JuneJulySeptember Established Member

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The point is to get you to stop being pussies and go do something about your dating lives instead of moaning about it for the rest of your life.

 

She's the wrong messenger in my eyes and it's the wrong message.

 

Instead of go make yourself something into somebody so that they will OVERLOOK your height and accept you begrudgingly...

 

How about go find someone who doesn't care?

 

Because there are women who don't care. She forgot to mention that part.

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ThaWholigan Established Member

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She's the wrong messenger in my eyes and it's the wrong message.

 

Instead of go make yourself something into somebody so that they will OVERLOOK your height and accept you begrudgingly...

 

How about go find someone who doesn't care?

 

Because there are women who don't care. She forgot to mention that part.

At this point it really doesn't matter what the message or who the messenger is - just DO SOMETHING! Other than bitching :laugh:.

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How about go find someone who doesn't care?

 

Because there are women who don't care. She forgot to mention that part.

 

Very true, I am one of them and I am 5'6'' which is average by female standards.

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PJKino Established Member

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The point is to get you to stop being pussies and go do something about your dating lives instead of moaning about it for the rest of your life.

 

That wasnt really her point she was just being an ahole but im sure women really do feel that way and that theyve settled for a short men

ThaWholigan Established Member

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That wasnt really her point she was just being an ahole but im sure women really do feel that way and that theyve settled for a short men

Dear Lord! :rolleyes:

 

Why do you think she was being an a-hole?

PJKino Established Member

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Dear Lord! :rolleyes:

 

Why do you think she was being an a-hole?

 

What the hell was the point of her saying women like it better when a tall guy they like likes them back as opposed to when a short guy likes them?

 

How exactly is that helping? Knowing that a women would like it better if the tall guy next to me was into her as opposed to me is supposed to be helpful information that was needed? lol

 

I know you're tired of these short man threads but if you can honestly tell me that was helpful advice and not her just trying to be mean spirited i dont know what to tell you

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ThaWholigan Established Member

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What the hell was the point of her saying women like it better when a tall guy they like likes them back as opposed to when a short guy likes them?

 

How exactly is that helping? Knowing that a women would like it better if the tall guy next to me was into her as opposed to me is supposed to be helpful information that was needed? lol

 

I know you're tired of these short man threads but if you can honestly tell me that was helpful advice and not her just trying to be mean spirited i dont know what to tell you

So far you guys haven't listened to anything else, certainly nothing I've told you. You only seem content to listen to things that confirm your "fate" so you can go "it's hopeless, it will never happen for me :(".

 

So she basically decided to give you that. She was mean about it, but surely that's what you guys believe anyway so she wasn't necessarily wrong was she?

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So far you guys haven't listened to anything else, certainly nothing I've told you. You only seem content to listen to things that confirm your "fate" so you can go "it's hopeless, it will never happen for me :(".

 

So she basically decided to give you that. She was mean about it, but surely that's what you guys believe anyway so she wasn't necessarily wrong was she?

 

Yeah i learned women will settle for a short dude if hes perfect in every other way to make up for his huge negative which is beign short all the while wishing it was a tall men who hit on them

 

Well im not gonna be someones scraps

Soxfaninfl Established Member

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The only problem is that I cant seem to find any girls who date short guys. I do not know where to look

 

Try online dating. There are many sites out there.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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Yeah i learned women will settle for a short dude if hes perfect in every other way to make up for his huge negative which is beign short all the while wishing it was a tall men who hit on them

 

Well im not gonna be someones scraps

See?

 

You won't listen to anything that tries to uplift you, but soon as she says that, you get all upset yet corroborate her meanness because deep in your heart, what she said is what you believe.

 

And that's why you will never get it. Unless you stop thinking that way and start taking steps to make your dating life better instead of languishing.

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It's true girls love my height, I'm 6'4 and I get tons of hugs and girls wanting to be picked up lol! :laugh:

PJKino Established Member

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See?

 

You won't listen to anything that tries to uplift you, but soon as she says that, you get all upset yet corroborate her meanness because deep in your heart, what she said is what you believe.

 

And that's why you will never get it. Unless you stop thinking that way and start taking steps to make your dating life better instead of languishing.

 

But ive seen women talk even ones with short guys and its mostly the truth..if its most womens lifelong dream to find a tall men i wont stand in their way

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So far you guys haven't listened to anything else, certainly nothing I've told you. You only seem content to listen to things that confirm your "fate" so you can go "it's hopeless, it will never happen for me :(".

 

So she basically decided to give you that. She was mean about it, but surely that's what you guys believe anyway so she wasn't necessarily wrong was she?

 

Jane was ripping short men, not whiners. She was ripping shortness, not whinyness.

 

Everyone disregards the majority of people here. I assert that there are far more readers who never post anything. Lots of short people here that never whine got a good dose of hate.

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SteveC80 Established Member

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Being tall is a huge advantage for a dude women have come up to me and congratulated me on my height :laugh: women are just f'in goofy i guess i dont understand the fascination

 

I feel for short men and their plight i certianly wouldnt want to be in their shoes with the way i hear women talk about them its not just that a lot of women arent atracted to them but they almost have a disdain for them its really bizarre

 

My ex said she felt like any man under 5'10 she felt like was a child not a man really harsh ****

ThaWholigan Established Member

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Jane was ripping short men, not whiners. She was ripping shortness, not whinyness.

 

Everyone disregards the majority of people here. I assert that there are far more readers who never post anything. Lots of short people here that never whine got a good dose of hate.

Initially yes.

 

But like I said, I don't agree with the meanness - I just understand why she posted what she posted. She should have prefaced it by directly addressing the short men who are whiners, because we know who they are.

 

I think that most short men would have the sense not to even take a post like that seriously in the first place. I showed my short brother that expose heightism twitter which said far worse than what Jane said. He laughed and went out to go f*ck his GF.

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mesmerized Established Member

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Jane is right. Perhaps the majority of women prefer taller men. Just like the majority of men prefer younger women or skinnier women or if we go by LS standards, white women. It does not mean however that we don't meet any shorter guy that we find incredibly sexy and who intrigues us to want something more with him.

 

If you're short, accept it and try to improve in other areas. Get built, have a sense of style, have a personality...I'm kind of shallow when it comes to height and yet I'd much rather a fit interesting shorter guy to a tall lanky loser dude.

 

And finally, remember, you are not alone. Most people have to try to work around something about them that doesn't make them exactly a gem in the dating world. So stop the whining and start the action!

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Soxfaninfl Established Member

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It's true girls love my height, I'm 6'4 and I get tons of hugs and girls wanting to be picked up lol! :laugh:

 

Dude you're not helping the situation.

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JuneJulySeptember Established Member

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Initially yes.

 

But like I said, I don't agree with the meanness - I just understand why she posted what she posted. She should have prefaced it by directly addressing the short men who are whiners, because we know who they are.

 

I think that most short men would have the sense not to even take a post like that seriously in the first place. I showed my short brother that expose heightism twitter which said far worse than what Jane said. He laughed and went out to go f*ck his GF.

 

How would it look if I posted in a thread about an overweight woman with a defect that prevented her from losing weight and said that all fat women are at a disadvantage with all men and that they must make up for it in all areas to have a chance?

 

And rubbed it in that all of my friends love skinny/fit women and truly prefer them over overweight women even when they do end up dating them even though I know many overweight women are reading the thread.

 

Mostly true? Perhaps.

 

But what would that say about me?

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IndianGuy87 Established Member

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Height is very important for women, even short women go for tall men over short men. Unless you're rich, you're screwed for life for being short.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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How would it look if I posted in a thread about an overweight woman with a defect that prevented her from losing weight and said that all fat women are at a disadvantage with all men and that they must make up for it in all areas to have a chance?

 

And rubbed it in that all of my friends love skinny/fit women and truly prefer them over overweight women even when they do end up dating them even though I know many overweight women are reading the thread.

 

Mostly true? Perhaps.

 

But what would that say about me?

It would look bad.

 

But if said fat woman was endlessly complaining and not doing anything about their dating problems, blaming men for it and finding every reason to throw the advice back in the faces of people who take the time to post them, then I wouldn't blame you.

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JuneJulySeptember Established Member

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It would look bad.

 

But if said fat woman was endlessly complaining and not doing anything about their dating problems, blaming men for it and finding every reason to throw the advice back in the faces of people who take the time to post them, then I wouldn't blame you.

 

Who wouldn't blame me for ripping apart a fat woman for complaining about her situation when I was a guy who has dated dozens of good looking women of all types and has had women approach me since forever?

 

Wow.

Bristolius Established Member

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It would look bad.

 

But if said fat woman was endlessly complaining and not doing anything about their dating problems, blaming men for it and finding every reason to throw the advice back in the faces of people who take the time to post them, then I wouldn't blame you.

 

This is why the battle of the sexes rages here. Some ass will claim that all women are bad. A woman will fight back by saying that all men are bad. Just two posts in and everyone on the planet has been insulted.

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PJKino Established Member

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It would look bad.

 

But if said fat woman was endlessly complaining and not doing anything about their dating problems, blaming men for it and finding every reason to throw the advice back in the faces of people who take the time to post them, then I wouldn't blame you.

 

She was being a jerk from the start its not like she was giving sound advice then we told her to go f herself then she lashed back then i could see it.. she had the mindset from the begining to be mean but for some reason women have a longer leash to say **** where if it was a dude women and the men with capes would kill him whitin seconds

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