ataloss8270 Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 (edited) OK here's a short background. I've work with this girl for about 1 1/2 years. There's somewhat of an age gap between us. I'm 29 and she's 21. We just started talking to each other via email for about three weeks. I finally asked her out and she excepted. The date was last night. I'm not sure if it went well though because I'm getting mixed signals from her. To me the date seemed to go fairly well. But that's my feeling lol. I'm not going to say it was perfect, but it went well. Almost no down time in conversation, we have alot in common, she didn't pull away if we seemed to get close, and when we got back to her house she invited me in to hang out with her sister and brother in-law who she lives with. Towards the end of the night she thanked me for taking her out and told me that I really made her fell special. She even made a comment at one point about how her sister told her that I was a really great guy. When I left her house I wasn't more than 10 minutes down the road before she texted me and thank me again for the night. I told her she was welcome, that I had a great time and hoped we could go out again another time. She answered with "me to, it definitely was fun". The first thing in this morning she texted me with good morning and we talked all day about this and that. Alot of her texts have Smiley faces with them. But here's where I'm confused. When I seen her at work she seemed kinda standoffish. When I looked her in the eye when we talked, she would look away and she just seemed kinda nervous to be around me. I'm kinda confused about it. I don't know what to think. Is she interested and doesn't want it to be obvious or is she felling the other way? I'm just kinda confused. I really like her and don't want to blow it if there's a chance to make something but at the same time I don't want to waste my time if there's nothing there on her end. I'd like a little advise from the female side of things please, because im confused. Edited March 6, 2013 by ataloss8270
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