destroyed4sho Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I have nothing to say. Cav Really i have nothing to say to the person i thought she was because it was a LIE. To the person that she actually is id say this: Everyone was right about you. Even the things you said aboit yourself were right. You had me fooled and played a role the first 6 months of our relationship and i know you wanted to break up with me the rest of the time bc you know the low life you really are and you knew you couldnt live up to my standards. You kept me around until you found someone else and were ready. You were a coward and spineless. No personality and all you have really is a facade you put on that you are fun go lucky positive person. You have mommy issues and project your feelig for your mommy unto others. Yout immature and a coward. Feel bad for the next one. I figured you out but it came at a price. I wish i never met you. You are worthless.
Am4Real Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 I'm sorry I have not read your original post so am unsure of all the details however you are rationalizing the steps and challanges quite well. My thoughts: like falling in love, removing yourself from "love" to indifference is also a process and although I have no scientific evidence or even a survey, I feel that falling in love and obtaining indifference are of about the same length of time, normally a matter of many months. Of course I exclude infatuation and other honeymoon phases of first meetings from the comparison, but you get my drift. It can take many months to really get to know someone where you feel the pull of love beyond kisses and butterflies and "fall for the entire package" so why would it be any shorter on the way out? Keep posting, we're all here for you. All the best, Am4Real 1
Am4Real Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 Really i have nothing to say to the person i thought she was because it was a LIE. To the person that she actually is id say this: Everyone was right about you. Even the things you said aboit yourself were right. You had me fooled and played a role the first 6 months of our relationship and i know you wanted to break up with me the rest of the time bc you know the low life you really are and you knew you couldnt live up to my standards. You kept me around until you found someone else and were ready. You were a coward and spineless. No personality and all you have really is a facade you put on that you are fun go lucky positive person. You have mommy issues and project your feelig for your mommy unto others. Yout immature and a coward. Feel bad for the next one. I figured you out but it came at a price. I wish i never met you. You are worthless. I'm sorry -- it sounds like a lot of pain.
thekarmacist Posted March 10, 2013 Posted March 10, 2013 nothing. silence is the best 'f.uck you' there is. 3
destroyed4sho Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I'm sorry -- it sounds like a lot of pain. Haha im over it now...just thought it would be a good excercise! Honestly I have nothing left to say to her. ;-)
melenkurion Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Nothing. After all this time, we'd be such different people I don't think we would have anything at all to talk about.
Bigcitydreamer Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I was dumped 3 weeks ago. I'd say: I miss you and still care about you even though we had way too many fights. I hope that you don't hate me and that we can still keep in touch once every couple of months. I'd like for us to heal and become better people all around and maybe in the future we could try again because you can never predict the future, but for now we need to figure ourselves out. He probably doesn't even feel that way towards me. For all I know he's thinking good riddance to her! When we broke up it was mid fight and there was no discussion whatsoever. It was weird for sure, but he kicked me out of his house for the last time and I knew we couldn't keep going the way we were going.
Chi townD Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 What would I say? I don't know. If we were in a crowded area, I would probably ask louder than necessary, "How's the Herpes Treatment coming along?" I'm kidding, I would probably say nothing, because she's nothing to me now.
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