geegirl Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 Because i want to know why she did what she did. I have the urge to understand and figure out what is actually going on. That is why. Rebound or not. There is more to this new relationship than "love at first sight". Wouldnt you agree? Your words. She's straight from the gutter. A slut. Someone that tried to manipulate you during the relationship for money and security. She is still married. Made two kids with another man. Bounced to you. Now to another and is engaged within 5 days. You cannot explain toxic behavior. You will never find answers. It doesn't matter the dynamics of this new relationship. If she is everything you say she is, accept that it would have never worked out, just as you said. And accept that she is with another man, and whatever her reasons are, it's not your business. Let them go and start focusing on you. 1
Author Kermit Posted March 5, 2013 Author Posted March 5, 2013 Your words. She's straight from the gutter. A slut. Someone that tried to manipulate you during the relationship for money and security. She is still married. Made two kids with another man. Bounced to you. Now to another and is engaged within 5 days. You cannot explain toxic behavior. You will never find answers. It doesn't matter the dynamics of this new relationship. If she is everything you say she is, accept that it would have never worked out, just as you said. And accept that she is with another man, and whatever her reasons are, it's not your business. Let them go and start focusing on you. Alright. I am in the process of letting go. Its just taking more time than i had hoped. I have no desire to get back with her at all. I guess im just hung up on the fact of how badly she screwed me in the end. Its almost like she planned to try and hurt my feelings. Like she knew what she was going to do all along. Just a sad ending to a situation where all i wanted to do was be there for another person in need.
CptSaveAho Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 Alright. I am in the process of letting go. Its just taking more time than i had hoped. I have no desire to get back with her at all. I guess im just hung up on the fact of how badly she screwed me in the end. Its almost like she planned to try and hurt my feelings. Like she knew what she was going to do all along. Just a sad ending to a situation where all i wanted to do was be there for another person in need. You screwed yourself... no normal sane person would ever put themselves in that situation... Once you see this and accept it, life gets better.... see my name... you were me... lesson learned next time, dont be me
Author Kermit Posted March 13, 2013 Author Posted March 13, 2013 You screwed yourself... no normal sane person would ever put themselves in that situation... Once you see this and accept it, life gets better.... see my name... you were me... lesson learned next time, dont be me Harsh, but true. I understand i made a huge mistake. I just got my feeling hurt and betrayed. Makes me feel like ive had such a huge blow to my ego getting dumped off and left by someone so far below me. It makes no sense to me and its just difficult to let go.
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