Drummerboy420 Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 I really don't want to think something like this.. But my ex (the dumper) was supposed to drop off some items on my porch last night. This was discussed last Wednesday. I offered to get them (just to get it done and over with), but she insisted that it's probably not a good idea that we see each other right now with me trying to go full NC. Fair enough. Well, I haven't checked since before heading to bed last night around 11:30, but I'm doubting she came by late to do it. So looks like a no-show. I'd like to think she just forgot. That alone still irks me, but I wouldn't put it past her. She always was forgetful. Have any of you ever dealt with this? Was the ex doing this to see if you'd break NC? I'm not doing it. Yes I want these items, but I'm not giving in. I can be a stubborn a**. lol.
TaraMaiden Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 Post a text: "Thanks for dropping my stuff off as agreed." No, ok. Don't. But it's tempting...... 1
mcdo Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 Hold strong and don't contact. She more than likely just forgot. Anyway, they're just material goods. Do you really need them back? I left my stuff at my ex's - DVDs, tshirts, stuff like that. I just realised at the weekend that she has a custom made tshirt of mine that cost me €40 . It's not worth contacting her for.
Author Drummerboy420 Posted March 5, 2013 Author Posted March 5, 2013 True. I'm not stressing it too terribly. They are a bunch of old family photo albums that My grandmother just unloaded on me a short while back. I know nothing will happen to them. They are the last items there of mine (aside from stray bits of mail I'm sure). Guess i thought it would help the feeling of closure for some reason. Ah well.
Author Drummerboy420 Posted March 5, 2013 Author Posted March 5, 2013 @ TaraMaiden - Lol! It's very tempting. But I won't. ;P
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