napy666 Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 My best friend is seeing this 35-36 year old guy and whenever they go out on dates she always has to tell him "kiss me" or she has to hold his hand or hug him "first". He never makes a move or does anything. She is in love with this guy but this guy is nothing but a mama's boy still living at home having to support his mother or the mom will tag along IF he does move away. She thinks that 6 months from now that where they are now in the current dating situation it will still be the same thing. But she really likes this guy a lot and says that they're best friends even, even doing a friends with benefits thing and she really would like this guy to be her boyfriend but he doesn't want to make them official yet.
ja123 Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 I don't see the "win" in this situation for her. She should move on. 2
snowflakes88 Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 You have like 5-6 threads going about her relationship. I think you should let her make her own mistakes, handle her own business, and worry about your own life. 5
MidwestUSA Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 You have like 5-6 threads going about her relationship. I think you should let her make her own mistakes, handle her own business, and worry about your own life. I'm beginning to think you have a thing for this "friend" and are looking for a reason for her to dump this guy. Seriously, why would you come here and post her every trivial problem? Or maybe you have agoraphobia.
FitChick Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 Maybe it's not about her friend but about her and she is too embarrassed to admit it.
Author napy666 Posted March 5, 2013 Author Posted March 5, 2013 Its not my problem at all it's her problem. And No I don't have a thing for her I'm not bi or a lesbian. I'm just worried about my friend and don't want her to get really hurt.
FitChick Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 Its not my problem That's right, it isn't so stay out of it. 1
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