Kupcate13 Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 This guy from school and I went on a great first date. Afterwards he texted and we talked for the next 3 weeks, flirty and admitted we liked each other. then we went on a 2nd date. 2nd date was great. had a nice dinner, drove an hour and a half out of town. gave me a very thought-out invitation to a dance a month from now and we cuddled. he took me home, and i walked him to his car. we hugged, and kissed and said we'd do it again sometime. he left and texted me later that night but i was asleep. then, we didn't talk at all for the next two days. i texted him and we chatted and then didn't talk for another two days. then we texted for a week straight. now we haven't talked for four days at all. we haven't set up a 3rd date. I don't understand if he's just waiting for me to come to him or if he's just not that interested....but some feedback would be nice :J
Author Kupcate13 Posted March 5, 2013 Author Posted March 5, 2013 How is he "playing" you? He won't admit how he feels about me, just keeps playing mind games with me.
Lonely Ronin Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 You have been on 2 dates, what are you expecting him to do, he still barely knows you?
clia Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 This guy from school and I went on a great first date. Afterwards he texted and we talked for the next 3 weeks, flirty and admitted we liked each other. then we went on a 2nd date. Why did you go three weeks between your first and second date? Who initiated the second date -- you or him? he left and texted me later that night but i was asleep. Did you ever respond to this text? then, we didn't talk at all for the next two days. i texted him and we chatted and then didn't talk for another two days. then we texted for a week straight. Has he mentioned the dance? How did your texting leave off? Have you talked on the phone at all? now we haven't talked for four days at all. we haven't set up a 3rd date. I don't understand if he's just waiting for me to come to him or if he's just not that interested....but some feedback would be nice :J My gut says he's not interested, however, I'd like to know why your second date was three weeks after your first before I solidify that answer.
AverageCat Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 He likes you, but is not sure if you like him, or if he's being too clingy, since he's constantly initiating. Just let go and enjoy. If you feel like texting him text him, just don't go all "I love you" on the first text. Cheers,
Author Kupcate13 Posted March 6, 2013 Author Posted March 6, 2013 Why did you go three weeks between your first and second date? I don't know, he works a part-time job and usually has to work on the weekend. Who initiated the second date -- you or him? He did. Did you ever respond to this text? Yes. Has he mentioned the dance? How did your texting leave off? Have you talked on the phone at all? No he has not. We've had a couple good conversations. We have not. My gut says he's not interested, however, I'd like to know why your second date was three weeks after your first before I solidify that answer. I'd like to know that also
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