cdt76 Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 So two months ago today, my girlfriend left and never came back. NC was initiated approximately three weeks or so after that. I haven't dated yet but when she and I were sexually perfect and I was addicted to her. Now I can't fantasize without her popping into my head! Wtf! So it gets ruined and I'm left frustrated and more angry! What the heck should I do!? Become a monk?
TaraMaiden Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 What makes you think Monks don't get sexually frustrated? masturbation and porn are big points of discussion on Buddhist forums.... Other than that, I don't know what to say. This kind of issue seems to be a singularly male one. Why fight it? Why not give into it and enjoy the moment? Or does it make you feel worse afterwards? Abstain for a while.....
Feelin Frisky Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 Have angry fantasies of revenge f_king and jizzing in her eye. I occasionally think about my ex fiance--the one with the BPD I sometimes write about. I hate her but if my mind wanders into fantasy of her, I let it be and just gag her with spooge in my mind. She was so damned sexy and cock-hungry. Then I can return to despising her passively until her memory leaves me. 2
Author cdt76 Posted March 5, 2013 Author Posted March 5, 2013 Tara I literally can't keep an erection when she pops in my head. Part of me wants to kick her in the face, the other part wants her body back and neither is a good option. Abstinence will have to be it then.
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