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About a friend, I swear to God :o

 

 

 

A friend informed me he did this recently. Personally, I think it sounds disgusting, but he also has a girlfriend. What do you guys think?

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I would consider that cheating yes.

 

And its also disgusting- I didn't think strippers allowed actual physical contact unless more money changed hands, so that would also suggest it was a conscious decision rather than getting caught up in the moment.

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How could it be NOT cheating?

 

Fking nastyyyyyyy why did your loser friend do that? Sickkkk

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it was a conscious decision rather than getting caught up in the moment.

 

 

Not that EITHER option would be OK by me

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It's only cheating if he sucked on his finger afterwards and gave the stripper a cheeky wink.

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It's only cheating if he sucked on his finger afterwards and gave the stripper a cheeky wink.

 

That's like sticking your fingers in a pool of toxic waste, then taking a shot of it for good measure.

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That's like sticking your fingers in a pool of toxic waste, then taking a shot of it for good measure.

 

It was a joke, I wasn't being serious.

 

Of course it is cheating. I have been to a few strip clubs and was told not to move my arms from my sides at any point throughout the dance.

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It was a joke, I wasn't being serious.

 

Of course it is cheating. I have been to a few strip clubs and was told not to move my arms from my sides at any point throughout the dance.

 

I know ;)

 

Seriously what kind of strip club was this? Sounds borderline brothel.

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Yeah, I believe it is cheating; why not? You are touching the genitalia of another person. Other people may not consider it that though. Even if it wasn't cheating -- it sure was disrespectful.

 

I doubt his girlfriend would want him doing that. I highly doubt he would like it if she touched some other dude's penis. Everyone has their own view of cheating though, so.

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Yep, cheating. If there are degrees of cheating, it's rather a low form of it, but cheating nonetheless.

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I know ;)

 

Seriously what kind of strip club was this? Sounds borderline brothel.

 

Central and South American strip clubs can be like that.....and then some. Main floor in plain view, you can grope them all you want and maybe even some finger ****ing. No doubt, a lot more goes on in the back rooms.

 

Seriously, you can find blowjob bars where you and your buddies sit at a table with a table cloth draped over to close off the bottom of the table. Girls come over and crawl under the table. You put some money by your crotch, get your willy wank out and they give you a blowjob while you drink beer.

 

I might have groped some strippers at a strip club, but have never actually gone to a blowjob bar. Not really my thing.

 

 

 

And yes, it is cheating.

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Cheating! And, technically, she's a career cheater if she had a hubby.

 

Bloody hell, I lead a sheltered life. :laugh:

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Central and South American strip clubs can be like that.....and then some. Main floor in plain view, you can grope them all you want and maybe even some finger ****ing. No doubt, a lot more goes on in the back rooms.

 

Seriously, you can find blowjob bars where you and your buddies sit at a table with a table cloth draped over to close off the bottom of the table. Girls come over and crawl under the table. You put some money by your crotch, get your willy wank out and they give you a blowjob while you drink beer.

 

I might have groped some strippers at a strip club, but have never actually gone to a blowjob bar. Not really my thing.

 

 

 

And yes, it is cheating.

 

I've heard stories of the red-light districts in Amsterdam/Korea but whoa, that takes the casual prostitution cake. :eek:

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Is it cheating to finger a stripper?

 

Well lets put it this way, and yes, I know you said its about a friend, but if you think its NOT cheating to finger a stripper, then let your gf give a stripper a blow job...then you'll REALLY find your answer.

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Not unusual in European strip clubs, if you know where to go.

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About a friend, I swear to God :o

 

 

 

A friend informed me he did this recently. Personally, I think it sounds disgusting, but he also has a girlfriend. What do you guys think?

 

 

it most certainly is cheating.....if the girlfriend went to a male strip show and played with the strippers penis i think the boyfriend would find that reprehensible...

 

 

in a reputable (if you can call them that )strip club....unless it is a private show and the stripper allows a guy to do that......it doesnt happen..imagine if every guy did it.....strippers dont go in lubed up or wet....exact opposite....its violating and i would consider it to be painful....and yes its a cheat in the making........deb

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Well lets put it this way, and yes, I know you said its about a friend, but if you think its NOT cheating to finger a stripper, then let your gf give a stripper a blow job...then you'll REALLY find your answer.

 

Well...a better comparison would be a hand job, but yeah.

 

Seriously, why would you even have to ask? Gross.

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Ewww... yuck. Sorry, I think it's disgusting--you don't know where that's been.

I also definitely consider that cheating if you're friend is in a committed relationship. We have a strip club in our area that was shut down because they were allowing (and doing) things like that (and more). Back in the day, I know someone who took his friend (a single/divorced man) to that club and the dancer allowed his friend to lick her genitalia while she was giving a lap dance in a "private" room. One dancer tried to give another one of my friends (who isn't single) a "handy" during a lap dance. Guess these "ladies" were hoping for bigger tips, but in this area it is definitely against the prostitution laws. My friend didn't think it was "cheating" though. . . I guess some people look at it differently than I do.

I guess the most important question is what would your friend's girlfriend/wife think of it? If it's something they feel they have to hide from their girl finding out because she would be outraged/hurt/upset, then that's the answer.

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I didn't even read the intial post. It's gross.

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Yes!

 

If I heard that my BF behaved that way I would get rid of him. I would be too embarassed to call him my BF!

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Jeesh, why did you even bother asking...? :rolleyes:

 

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What exactly does a guy even get out of fingering a stripper? Like why would you even do that. :sick::sick::sick:

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A guy maximising his investment. Fine.

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