charmciti Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 My husband told me he cheated on me with one of his co workers. I feel like I dont want to live anymore. We have three kids together. He is my first love. We were college sweethearts.I shared everything with him. I gave him my virginity and three kids. I told him things that I never shared with anyone else. I dont know why he would do this to me. I feel so angrey I cant stand to look at him. He told me he only had sex with her one time and he felt bad afterwards. However he didnt want to tell me at first because he did not want to hurt me. Right now I dont know what I should do. I dont love him anymore. I want him to go away. I dont want him to see our kids. I want full custody. I gave him everything and we build a life together. But right now idk what to do I am very hurt. Please give me some advice.
Toddbt12y1 Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 It is an awful thing, that he cheated on you. Especially given the years, and the life you gave him; the life you brought into the world with him. He hide things from you; maybe so he could keep you from pain, but it only makes it worse, in the end. I cannot tell you as to why he would do such a thing. It could be numerous reasons, as to why. Perhaps, lust? That is not the point, though. The point is, he has hurt you badly. Hurt your kids, or will when they find out. He did a very selfish act. If you feel as though he is not worthy of your love anymore; nor try marriage counselling; then you have every right to divorce him. His actions are his own, and he has to own-up to them. Unfortunately, it has effected you all.
Ninja'sHusband Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 It's a horrible thing to have happen. I'm so sorry. It's your right to want out. I would get legal counsel ASAP. Though I do plead with you to consider what is best for your kids. It's usually best for the kids to continue to have equal access to both parents, unless he's physically abusive or hooked on drugs.
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