The Tallest One Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 Hi all, I was on this site a lot last summer and now I'm back! If anyone has read my past posts you will remember I was in a roller coaster relationship with a woman I deeply loved! Well after seeing her for 22 months and after her pushing me away and coming back to me more than half a dozen times, she has finally ended it for good! She claims I'm a great guy and that this is hard for her because she really cares about me but she feels too much needs to change in my life in order for her to see me/us differently! As much as I treated her like gold and she would always say she didn't deserve me, she was always "confused" and didn't know what she wanted or needed in life at the moment! She was very unstable emotionally and caused me so much pain and heartache! I know she's not good for me and I do really just want to move on, but its only been sixteen days since she ended it and I'm still in that place of trying hard not to think of her! It's hard and I'm hurting but I just wanted to post cause I appreciate the support people here have had for me and others! As a word of caution to others, don't waste your time on someone who does t know if they want to be with you! You deserve someone who knows they want to be with you! Cheers!
amaysngrace Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 I'm sorry to hear that but you are right in that if she demands so much change from you she isn't the one for you. True love is when someone allows you to be yourself. 1
Author The Tallest One Posted March 4, 2013 Author Posted March 4, 2013 Amaysngrace, thanks for the reply! She treated me like an option and not a person sometimes! I understand some of her concerns but she's just not someone who would stand by me as I am improving my life! It's like she wants guarantees! I have always given her all of me and was totally committed to us, but she couldn't make the same commitment!
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