GuyInLimbo Posted March 8, 2013 Posted March 8, 2013 Yeah, it's strange how some men are immune to their wives' advances, but get overly stimulated by porn. That's a wiring error in their brains I think, reinforced by their upbringing and the different types of women in their lives. I wouldn't put up with it either, as it seems to be a lost cause.* My situation is somewhat different (you can search for my original post on LS), I think, but I'll explain from a guy's point of view. For me, it's a matter of sexuality. My wife, frankly, doesn't turn me on. She's awkward. To this day I simply don't believe she cares much about sex. And has never really shown any passion for me. She has a lot of hang-ups and insecurities. In fact, she's pretty much stated that she's satisfied with the frequency we have sex (which is at best 4x month) if I am. Huh? No, I want you to want MORE. It's a complete absence of sexuality and confidence that's really ruined it for me. Porn? Well, it's an escape and it doesn't require any real effort. You get off, you're done. I couldn't tell you how many times my wife has said or done something during foreplay that has COMPLETELY turned me off. Or she smells bad. I can go on. So many guys have reasons. In this case, clearly something has altered Philly's husband's mind. I'm struggling to understand that, as she sounds sexy and like a hell of a lot of fun to me. She's the type of woman I am looking for, in many ways (I'm not saying I want to meet her, but you know what I mean).
Author phillygirl Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 thanks! Haven't chimed in for a while, but I've filed, and we are moving along. Thanks for the support.
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