Couldntbemoreupset Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 Ok so I broke up with the gf last month....01/02/2013. NONE OF YOU FEEL ANY WORSE THAN I DID, I WAS YOU!! She dumped me. I cried, I cried, I begged, I pleaded, I said I couldnt live without her, said I was going to hang myself....usual stuff you know. Ok I never took some of the advice from the likes of Tara Maiden, and a few others. I did it my way. I sent her a 'closure' letter apologising. Why.....because I wanted her back!! Not for closure. She ignored it and it was so personal. She emailed me (she had changed her number and blocked my facebook already) saying my belongings would be returned.....and I should 'just leave it be now'. And guess what, after that, I felt the same as I did on day one. My friends have her on fb, ive asked not to know what's going on. I avoid nightclubs I know she will frequent, I dont want to see it. So what I'm saying is, take the advice guys. If she can walk out on you after 4 years and not look back - SHE DOESNT DESERVE YOU. Stop looking to blame yourself for everything IT COULDNT ALL BE YOUR FAULT DESPITE WHAT YOU TELL YOURSELF NOW. The fact that you are on here, means you are the same desperado that I was, and I'm trying to tell you that after some time you will regret all of the 'will she come back' 'how to make her come back' 'give me a 1percent chance' searches you're doing. I did it all.....hours upon hours upon hours.....Shes not coming back guys. She just isnt, she gave up months before and you just choose not to see it, and she is happier without you. I have since met a girl, dated her a few times over the last two weeks, initiallly scared that 'nothing compares to you' regarding my ex. Well thatll fade guys....I just got this text from the new girl who I'd told that I was probably damaged goods and she should go with a guy that has been single for longer. The response I felt was worthwhile to you new folk......to show you that other people may see in you what the ex didnt. I had no confidence, was devastated, didnt/dont want anyone but my ex. But hey, some other girl will see the good in you, and they will become special: 'Damaged goods, excuse me!, u are the nicest guy, who is so kind and considerate, and when we had sex it was amazing. I'm not stopping seeing you, like it or not' But wait, i thought i was the guy for the scrapheap, the guy that wasnt good enough for the ex.....the guy that was a let down. In summary, take peoples advice....You really are THEIR LOSS. I bet my life that she sees that in time, and in time it will be too late. HER LOSS A month ago I could never have written that to you....keep the faith. In Irish there's a term (ok originally used for Republican means) which says Tioc Faidh Arla....It means Our Day Will Come. I can guarantee each and every one of you, whether she comes back, doesnt, whether you find out, or whether you dont, that one day, even if only for a second, she will regret losing you..... Tioc Faidh Arla Stay Strong! 3
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