Is he interested now ?

[Frederica]

Dear all, I may need your advice.

Was in FWB relationship for 5 months. I am 32, he is 36. He did not want have serious relationship, me neither,which we agreed at the beggining. However...althouhg I did not intended so , I fell for him hard. Showed him some hints, which he did not responded to, so I walked away. I „dumped“ him over an email, was being really nice and so was he. Said good bye and that was it.

I was heart broken,like never before ,but I have my pride,so was moving on. We did not speak for a month. I know his friend, who happen to tell me,that Mr.V felt really bad,that I obviously wanted something more and he did not.

Anyway...I knew....the best way to get over him is to go full NC. However after couple of weeks, I decided to send him an email, in which I would show him „hey, no hard feelings, no need to feel guilty, you did not promise me anything, and I am cool,doing fine“....I was probably the funniest text I have ever composed..

He replied within minutes, obviously happy to hear from me. I was not however seeking „lets be friends now, as I am still in love with him,so kept my reply short and sweet, then went „silent“ again.

In the meantime, our mutual friend told me,that Mr.V confessed to him, he f...d..with me big time,that he did not treat me the way he should‘ve…

Last Friday, Mr.V sent me an email ,how am I doing and if I have any plans for the evening.

I almost fell from my chair…J Before I had a chance to reply, he called. First time ever, we used to always communicate via emails,IM’s..

He called and asked me ,if he can take me to a theater for a play. And I did go.

It was wonderful. For the first time ever, he was actually being a gentleman, even wore a cologne and the chemistry was instantly there again. We talked ,laughed and I played it very well..to be cool. It was more than obvious, he tried to impress me.

He than drove me home, kissed me on the cheek, said a he had a wonderfl time with me, said good nite and that was it. Sent me a short email on saturday,no contact since than.

 

I need to add,that by the time we were seeing each other, he often treated me like a jerk.

So my question to you…Is he just trying to say sorry ,now ? Is he trying to win me over ? Or just being selfish and seeking validation for his own ego ?

I also know, that in the past, he was not very good in maintaining long term relationships, having some issues with commitment.

I am not a teen girl anymore. I need to protect my heart and be very careful, not be played be some assclowns,who doesnt have any respect for me.

 

 

 

But obviously dying here to know, what the hell was that ?